Hi girls,
I have some questions to those of you with more experience and knowledge: if one knows well how to perform a breast self-exam regularly and goes about once a year to have her prostate checked, is it absolutely necessary to go for a
yearly gynecological checkup? I am asking this because I may have to look for a new gynecologist and finding one who is knowledgeable about trans issues might not be too easy for me.
What is your experience with gynecologists sometime after GRS? Did you tel them about your history, did you allow them to get puzzled

when an ultrasound or a PAP-smear or didn't they do all that didn't even found out?
Is it true a GP performing a manual
pelvic exam may not find out, as my current GP has told me? (I don't remember exactly if she said that judging the outer appearance or after she performed the actual examination with two of her fingers).
Also, is this just my paranoia or do many doctors exaggerate a a little bit (as usual*) the necessity of yearly
prostate checkups, as prostate cancer risk diminish dramatically after GRS?
Or should we say we should have our prostates checked just like every other woman?
Thanks in advance for your answers!
Eurydike
PS.- Sorry if this topic already exist in some manner, but I couldn't find all the answers in other threads.
* I'm saying there may be some exaggeration in medical standards because pretty much every woman can get hormones prescribed without blood tests and surgeries scheduled without psycho letters (provided they're not MAAB), while so called SOC and lots of doctors are, to say the least, "overprotecting" and "conservative" in providing medical treatments for trans people. Also, I always had the impression that many medical professionals tend to stress and exaggerate the health risks, at least compared to cis people, while underestimating or ignoring many psychological and social factors of transition.