I am driven to set an example

[angiejuly]

 Outed by a Denny's server. Wasn't a big deal to me and I wrote my concerns of this and server training to the CEO. My letter was so that he would do something so you would not have to go through this while you are trying to live a life. I got a letter back from the aria manager that was disrespectful of my feelings in the first one and i wrote a complaint about how they handled my complaint. LOL! Well I am not a busy body and let everything go. Not this. I will not let these corporate bigots that think we are just stupid and crazy throw my letters under the rug. You will have this happen to you as well if an example is not set.
I am asking that you take notice I am wanting to hear what he is going to do and personally from him how I know the LGBT community will be respected by the Employees. I didn't demand any money for me. Will you please write the CEO a letter of your feelings of what happened to me and how strong we can be to get respect? Our togetherness is our strength to be respected.  The CEO will eventually get my letters i wrote from the hearts love without any anger and you will see something big happen, trust me!
To let him know, I am Anela from Kona Hawaii. Publicly outed by a server 2/2/13  11 am Kona Store. I would like the CEO to know how his employees treat us. I have been brushed under the rug.
Here is there sight. If you choose to not, that is ok too , do not get upset when it happens to you.
Thank you  and all my love, Anela
http://www.dennys.com/#/about/corporate

[Lorri Kat]

denny's(sic)  has a long history of discrimination towards many groups.  Were you refused service? How were you 'outted'?    Depending on what happened hitting them on their bottom line and bad PR, such as the recent Applybees incident, are the only way coporate will effect change at the local store level.  There was a Transgender bathroom use suite at a Maine denny's( I refuse to capatilize their name) a couple years ago that brought about ,allegedly, some policy change.  Local franchise owners do their own thing , till corporate slaps them, also.    Wither or not if you 'pass' should have no bearing.

Your letter and their response would be helpful to see.  They have been on my 'Will not spend money at list' for a long  time.

[angiejuly]

My concerne was with training. The surver was being stupid. I never even let them know who she is. I love people and wanted to know something of respect will be put into the training. The real disrespect comes from corporate for burriing me. I never said i want money to them. Only that I want to know from the CEO that he got the message. No matter what they think I know any CEO will protect credibility. I do not want other girls or guys ( almost left the guys out) to even have to go through this when the server did not mean to be so stupid. She came to the table and said, "Oh i did not know you where a guy, I thought you where a girl" I was in a girls top, mini skirt, liner, 7 years hormones and post op, I have breasts and a pretty good girls voice. I did my part to show what I want to be called. Just awareness, needs to be trained in because I do not expect high intelligence from servers even though they may have it some , why use it working there?

I cannot seem to get any help at this so for some popularity I must disclose that I think I am the first person to have a sex transition surgery paid for by a state. I am also the only person who can do pin point sacred geometry without a compass or gauge tool, I am also gaining popularity here in town for speaking truth of balancing society between songs I wrote of my rage of lack of love. I am a visionary and feel this came to me to drive me out. I have severe traumatic stress and angora phobia.

So I am walking through fires for equality, I have some amazing things inside my mind. Perhaps helping expose me will help you in the end. I have decided to live as an out transsexual, show my insight of balance and lead by example through unconditional love for creation ( meaning nature, the source, God as the religious call it) This example for me is to be out, expose where equality is not being precticed, and disclose and create new foundations with physics formulas that actually have a foundation.

I am going to work on attacking Denny's through nutrition and health. I know they are compliant to Codex Alimentarious as everything large is. There food supply can be linked t psychological and physical problems. ( All grocery stores food can now). But who knows this. i am only trying to utalise my sources and bring awareness. Writings on nutrition I keep positive and very little negative examples. I only feel dennys is a great exsample to pull to peaces. I have no mercy to mans creations.
Love Anela..

[angiejuly]

denny's(sic)  has a long history of discrimination towards many groups.  Were you refused service? How were you 'outted'?    Depending on what happened hitting them on their bottom line and bad PR, such as the recent Applybees incident, are the only way coporate will effect change at the local store level.  There was a Transgender bathroom use suite at a Maine denny's( I refuse to capatilize their name) a couple years ago that brought about ,allegedly, some policy change.  Local franchise owners do their own thing , till corporate slaps them, also.    Wither or not if you 'pass' should have no bearing.

Your letter and their response would be helpful to see.  They have been on my 'Will not spend money at list' for a long  time.

What is the applebees thingy?

[misschievous]

Good for you Dennys needs to be taken down a notch. that place sux I used to work there a while ago cooks would put food out on the window when it was the only part of the order done, then you would be waiting 10 or sometimes way longer for the rest of the food to be done. Then the customers would get mad at me for bringing them warm food instead of hot, and the food taking so long. On a Saturday night after a college football game that was only a halph mile away I could walk out of there with less then $20 in my pocket.

[angiejuly]

Good for you Dennys needs to be taken down a notch. that place sux I used to work there a while ago cooks would put food out on the window when it was the only part of the order done, then you would be waiting 10 or sometimes way longer for the rest of the food to be done. Then the customers would get mad at me for bringing them warm food instead of hot, and the food taking so long. On a Saturday night after a college football game that was only a halph mile away I could walk out of there with less then $20 in my pocket.

I have your back sis! Here is something I wrote today to get somethings going but it has been hard work with no reward yet. I am not giving up. I want to see corporations sh$% their pants at equality.
( Please copy and spread email and anywhere you think people have heart.)
  Hi , I am Anela,
I have decided I must be an out transitioned M to F woman to do my part and present my visions of balance and  help bring society in balance with the universe and todays technologies. This writing will be about LGBT and equality and how it effects us all like a web no matter the opinion.
I would like to bring awareness to equality and balancing society with new foundations. Judgment, abuse and misunderstanding me has given me a life of painful and unjust experiences. The Balance in my life is to bring my insights of balance forward to those who have a heart for Equality and a "peaceful human existence".

Foundations can be created without government policy doing it,( however the fluoride seems to be working  great  on  zombiefiing  the masses to allow complete control). 
This writing I want to speak in the direction of LGBT respect and how I feel equality is being held at bay by " go back to bed metaphysics".   
My experience!
   Being I am a transitioned woman  with trauma I have stayed  home to avoid more trauma , judgments, and bigotry from humanity. A friend took me out to show me the world is not that bad. It is , as she wound out. We sit for lunch at Denny's ( EW!) and the server outs me in front of the entire  place.  I make no scene and calmly corrected her stupidity. I did not want to deal with the manager because they just offer free meals and I do not need that food in me.( I am organic vegetarian, with a heart for plants and animals to grow free from control). 
I wanted the CEO of Denny's to get my complaint that was more a suggestion to bump up the training and awareness of how to respect the public.  They give it to the aria manager who cared nothing of my feelings and had his own idea how to fix and cover up this situation. It was simple, I wanted the CEO to know my feelings and get a letter he got the message. What will be done was not my concern nore did I demand any money or any benefit to me. I simply care about people no matter how I am treated. It is my love for people trying to be themselves I feel corporations should show some respect to the overwhelming strength girl and guys like me disply to the world.
Now my problem is whit corporate for trying to cover up. I have written several times from the heart without threats asking them to please stop treating me like a crazy ->-bleeped-<-. I am fed up of disrespect. I refuse to let it go because they think it will. I feel very much now the CEO should know what the corporate employees think of LGBT customers. I also feel awareness of what happening to me will be a small peace and my little part of bringing light and equality back to us.
  The only way I will be able to lead by example is to be an "out" transsexual  woman at this point.
I have tried to get help contacting the CEO and asked for help with this by every LGBT outreach I can find and this has shown me a huge awakening. These organizations are here and given grants to make the LGBT people and those who support Equality a feeling  of ," go back to bed, don't do anything, we have your back". But if you reach out for an outreach they will frustrate you with other links that do the same thing in a circle of draining efforts till you  burn out. 
I would love to organize and have help exposing these organizations for pulling grants and not doing the work they say they will do for us. I would like to have these grant go to those who really work for equality and not metaphysics of illusions of working for equality.
I feel if I try I can find some needles in the haystack of humanity that the fluoride has not done as good a job on that will be willing to do work in service to others to help bring equality.
If Equality and peace is something you would like to grow toward then please connect up with me. I am powerless alone against 7 billion. But I try!
I ask if you are for equality to please write Denny's corporate and give them your opinion of the treatment of me and that you support Anela ,  in Kona Hawaii on her equality Movement.( They know who I am .)
Remember equality is all things not limited to LGBT. I am only concentrating on LGBT for this particular writing and plea for help from others who have hearts. My main focus is for children to excel at their natural talents and have public schools stop drilling their inadequacies into them with the no ," no child left behind atrocity", so I am working an many and all levels here.
Thank you for loving others and caring for equality. I look forward to building a peaceful balanced world with you.
Love and light forever, Anela Hiku,'ehuki Lani
Email Denny's Here http://www.dennys.com/#/about/corporate
My Blog,  Visionary of balance  ( new)  http://angelofjuly.blogspot.com/
My FB   https://www.facebook.com/Anelahikuehikulani
My email angelofjuly@live.com

[Brooke777]

I was discriminated against at a Macy's department store last year. When they did not respond to my letter, I contacted the Washington Human Rights Commission, and the ACLU. Like you, I did not want money, I just wanted to make sure that no other trans person would have to go through what I did. Eventually, something did come from it, and I am satisfied with the results. Anela, it sounds as if you have done a good job of getting this started. You just might need to step up the pressure a little bit. If there is a strong LGBT group in your area they might be willing to help you as well. Good luck!

[Arwen]

I know your anger, my sisters; however, I remind all, that when forced to confront this sort of foolishness do so always, with Dignity;never stoop, to name-calling and such and never alter, even in the slightest, one's account, of that which occurs, and so, bring disgrace, upon our People.
I am curious, did any other patrons, hear, the server's words? if so, what, their reactions?
but aside from this, now, that this word, of a history of discrimination, occurs, in this chain of restaurants, know, that I shall intend, never again, lending my patronage to them, until they shall clearly demonstrate, more sensitivity and tact.

[angiejuly]

I know your anger, my sisters; however, I remind all, that when forced to confront this sort of foolishness do so always, with Dignity;never stoop, to name-calling and such and never alter, even in the slightest, one's account, of that which occurs, and so, bring disgrace, upon our People.
I am curious, did any other patrons, hear, the server's words? if so, what, their reactions?
but aside from this, now, that this word, of a history of discrimination, occurs, in this chain of restaurants, know, that I shall intend, never again, lending my patronage to them, until they shall clearly demonstrate, more sensitivity and tact.

You are so right! I am so glad my letters to them was from my heart but writing here i got a  little ranty! I do not know how to step it up. I have felt drained lately.  For some reason my efforts have not done anything yet.  I have contacted every single LGBT outreach on the web. They are not here to help bring equality but placed to keep lgbt at bay from activism. Like a We have your back, go back to bed , metaphysics. They are another thing I want to expose.

I figured being out as the first person to be transitioned by state money would get some recognition. Ha done nothing. I thought being the only person in the world who can do pin point sacred geometry by hand was something, no , nobody cares, I thopught painting it with a cat whisker would get some recognition to me, once again nothing, I thought Writing the cure for cancer would give me some recognition. No, you have to have 30 years of school to be heard. The hours I have worked hard posting where i can have not done anything. So I have no choice but to live in a world of fluoridated people that will do absolutely nothing for others. My work in service to others has drained me to no end, my exposure of who I am bring hate and lonelyness. So I am preparing for going into Nature and blending with that. Humanity can be hard to deal with.

I am hurt and sad from seeing a world go dark and nobody seems to care much. Nobody is the masses.

So I am a visionary of balance and tried to be out and an example. Without backup it is very draining, I thought for sure it would come.

Just know I am not mad at anyone and accept the choice to live in a dark disconnected world from love. I know I give love and that is all that matters.

I tried to get on a speed boat forum but they kicked me off for being trans. Nature is nicer to me, everything I need just shows up when I am out there as well.

Love you all.