new with nothing...

[OregonCrossdress97]

hi everyone i am new here... i am young 15...  problems... i dont have any materials to crossdress with no money and not haveing enoguh confidence to go into target and buying a dress.... what should i do?

[OregonCrossdress97]

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[OregonCrossdress97]

Sorry for triple posting but i was reading thru the other topics and stories and such and i forgot to explain about why i have nothing

well in other posts they say the would go into the sisters or moms closet and try things on... well my the family i live with is overweight(including me) myself i am 300lbs 6'6" and looks nothing like a girl but i still of the obsession with it... well since my mom and my sister are over weight they really dont have anything in my mind sexy or good looking my mom its just pants and weird shirts i think are ugly and my sister only wears sweatshirts and pants...so i just have to "commandere" some of her bras and panties. and i cant express my self the way i want toand its hard cuase i dont have enough couarge to go buy a dress or a skirt and i dont want to resort to stealing... is there any advice to be given or any suggestions?

[Dayna]

Get yourself over to Goodwill...many of their items cost as little as 50 cents.  Tell the salesperson that you need help with a Halloween costume--that you want to dress up as the bearded lady from the circus, or better yet as Kirstie Alley BEFORE Jenny Craig.  Chances are they will have fun helping you, you will have fun, and you might even gain a little confidence.

Don't resort to stealing; the moral/ethical/legal reasons aside, you dont want to be 'outed' by the local paper ("Crossdresser Caught Shoplifting Supersize Panties").

Good Luck!

-d

[Dee]

When I was still living at home, I got a PO Box and ordered everything there.  It can be frustrating though, because you have to find the online stores that will ship to PO Boxes, and depending on your local post office works, you have to make sure they use discreet packaging.  I say this because sometimes oversized packages will be placed in a large temp box, and you will receive a key in your mail box... but sometimes, if the temp boxes are full, you will have to pick up your package at the front desk during regular hours.

[michelleats]

Goodwill is a good choice, better to have paid a dollar and then find out something doesn't fit or look right than to have paid retail price for something you can't ever hope to wear.  Perhaps starting out with your own undies and wearing them under your drab stuff would help break the ice while shopping.  We all had first time shopping butterflies in our careers, just remember the store doesn't care who you are buying the bra for they just want your money...and besides it's a lot easier to buy stuff around the holidays...keep us posted on if you make it to target...we all love a good sale on lingerie...

[michelle]

One way I solved the problem of buying myself panties or bras at Walmart was to through some tools or say a football in with them and look indifferent.   Also today there are a lot of self check out counters.  Act like your sister or some other female asked you to pick up something.   

As a 50 plus male to female I have had lots of practice being in the middle of the women's section with a bunch of kids.   I used the time to look for things for myself.   I was asked to pick up things for females in my family.  This and the moves above made it easier to buy things for myself.

I was really self conscious and afraid at first, but I got through it.