I've been on T for about two years and I'm 5 months post op. I still have NOT gotten a name change. It costs $395 in California, so that was an issue, but I might qualify for a waiver and my sister has offered to pay it if I can't. I no longer have no reason, but I'm just so scared to fill out the papers and turn them in. I've never been in a court situation personally and I don't do well with authority figures or talking to strangers in general. The nerves are keeping me from trying... I hope to get this over with soon though. I just need help getting my butt in gear. I am definitely not a self motivator.