Well, I found this site by searching for "Asperger transgender", and yes I'm another trans-Aspie.
I'm 13 1/2 years from the AS diagnosis, and 20 months into full time life as the woman I am. I'm also a deeply committed Christian, which can and does cause problems.
I say I intend to go into new situations "stealth", then I spoil it by joining a choir and singing bass, or giving a TV interview on the need for Gay Pride.