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Phone: Said I was a guy but he kept ma'aming me

Started by Julie Marie, September 16, 2009, 03:11:01 PM

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Julie Marie

My cell phone is still in the old name.  (Yes, I am a procrastinator and as soon as we get around to having an election I plan to run for president of the club.)  So when I went to add a couple of lines I had to give my old name so they would allow the changes.

At first the guy called me "sir" as I expected.  While I didn't revert back to the old voice, I also didn't use the 'Julie' voice.  I tried to sound as much like a man as my brain would allow.  So when he first called me "sir" I figured I passed.

Then he calls me ma'am and immediately apologizes, saying he talks to a lot of people and blah, blah, blah.  I thought it was funny.  Then he does it again.  Now I'm really getting a kick out of it.  And, before we go he does it one more time.  ;D

I guess I can't pass as a guy over the phone anymore!  :D

Julie
When you judge others, you do not define them, you define yourself.
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Debra


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Sandy

Quote from: Julie Marie on September 16, 2009, 03:11:01 PM

I guess I can't pass as a guy over the phone anymore!  :D
Julie


Maybe I should take my voice lessons from you!

-Sandy
Out of the darkness, into the light.
Following my bliss.
I am complete...
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Suzy

Ha!

And why are you surprised at this?

I love testing things with strangers on the phone. If they are going to call me unsolicited, why not get some benefit?  Except last week I did not recognize a number and answered as me. Turns out it was a co-worker. Oops!  I said just a minute, set down the phone, clomped aroud a minute and then shifted gears and answered.
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Mister

You could've done it online and not dealt with the BS.
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Tammy Hope

Reminds me of something that happened this afternoon...

so I stop at a full service gas station and the guy appears at the window and says "What can I get you ma'am?" and then visible realizes he is talking to a male. I smile and try to demonstrate he's fine (after all, I'm wearing pink nail polish for a reason) and he recovers and goes to pump the gas and then comes back and gets paid and says "have a nice day sir" with the "sir" sounding kind of strained.

I wish I could have told him that "ma'am" was just fine and a compliment but I didn't want to make him even more uncomfortable.
Disclaimer: due to serious injury, most of my posts are made via Dragon Dictation which sometimes butchers grammar and mis-hears my words. I'm also too lazy to closely proof-read which means some of my comments will seem strange.


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juliekins

The voice can be the hardest behavioral change we need to make during transition. Many of us did our part to hold up gender stereotypes and survive in the birth gender world, thus we trained our voices wrong. It takes awhile to "find" your female voice.

You know you're doing well when that's the voice that comes out when you're startled or waking from a sleep. That said, I for one always try harder when out in public or on the phone. I can get a little lazy at home.

Julie's done a remarkable job on her voice, based on where she started. I'm surprised that she thinks people on the phone would take her as anything but female. Congrats, dear!
"I don't need your acceptance, just your love"
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Suzy

Quote from: juliekins on September 19, 2009, 01:01:41 AM
Julie's done a remarkable job on her voice, based on where she started. I'm surprised that she thinks people on the phone would take her as anything but female. Congrats, dear!

I totally agree!  Great job, honey!

Kristi
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