Tips for girls new to guys

[monarch]

Monarch, as far as what attracts us to guys and/or makes us feel more feminine, thankfully, we have as many varied thoughts, feelings, ideas and ideals as cis women, as well we should, because we're women too. I know lots of women who love being women even more because they love men and appreciate them for their physical and emotional strength and how they make them feel sexually. I'm one of them. I'm definitely NOT into other women other than friendship, emotional support and they will understand me in ways men never could and I'm fine with that. Women just don't do it for me sexually. But....hugs, Mira                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                 

Oh, yes I see.  Like Tessa James, what you wrote resonated with me as well.  I just had some thoughts on why that was, and I was interested to see that other women had similar experiences.  Of further interest to me is how all of this relates to my sexual orientation, which is kinda muddied at the moment.  As you can see, my thoughts are outside the scope of what the OP wanted to discuss on this thread, so I won't discuss it beyond clarifying what I wrote earlier.  I definitely did not mean to imply anything about lesbian relationships on a thread about heterosexual relationships.

[Jennygirl]

Oh, yes I see.  Like Tessa James, what you wrote resonated with me as well.  I just had some thoughts on why that was, and I was interested to see that other women had similar experiences.  Of further interest to me is how all of this relates to my sexual orientation, which is kinda muddied at the moment.  As you can see, my thoughts are outside the scope of what the OP wanted to discuss on this thread, so I won't discuss it beyond clarifying what I wrote earlier.  I definitely did not mean to imply anything about lesbian relationships on a thread about heterosexual relationships.

It's okay.. I've been feeling quite "muddied" myself too, haha. Sexuality right now is very fluid for me, because I don't feel that I'm quite prepared to handle everything sexually without SRS.

Anyway I just wanted to thank everyone that has made these wonderful suggestions so far. It's been an absolute joy to read and it seems like it's helping others, too, which is GREAT!

I've been out of town with no chance to really start using any of these tips quite yet, but I will let you know how it goes when I do

Thanks again, wonderful wonderful ladies!!!