Hey there Brad,
Welcome matey. Yup - lots of conversations.
I'm not FTM, but I'm getting 3-stage phalloplasty after a terrible experience, and am a gay guy who found this community through the tragedy. I get where people are coming from -- not having a 'genital configuration' that's what mainstream expects has opened my eyes to what transgendered people go through.
I post everywhere here--they're a really fun and good group of people...but have a specific interest in post-op psychosexual rehab. About how to figure out how to enjoy the body rebuild, how to communicate to new partners about the new body and adjust to one, and rebuild a healthy sex life, post op.
Cheers and welcome
stav