Found out my BIL defriended me at some point after the fight we had. So you come to my house, act aggressively (in speech and manner, not physically), tell me off... and defriend me after I kick you out? Classy.
This is also the guy my parents gave me an ultimatum over. Basically... make up with him or I'm not welcome at Christmas (i.e. we'll have separate Christmases... which to me means the same thing).
All blame is assigned to me in my family... I suppose that's always been true.