I had a small incident at work 3 nights ago...
Guy one: so do you think he's hot
Guy two: yea
Guy one: I was hoping you would say no.
Guy two: I don't care, he is hot I would take him in the back, you know what I mean.
I walked out of hearing range at that point but a little while later I walked past them.
Guy one: Oh >-bleeped-<, I think he heard us.(really didn't think I acted different or anything.)
Guy two(loudy talking to me as I walked away): Bitch I don't care if you heard.
I just kept doing my job.
Later, I asked another employee if she heard any of what they said, she didn't.
I didn't really think it bugged me but at lunch I went home and couldn't stop crying so I called in the rest of the night. I haven't missed a day or gone home early from work at all in the last 3 years
I don't work with these guys but we work around each other for about 4 hours 2 or 3 nights a week. night before last Guy two was constantly staring at me.
should I just keep ignoring it? that is the advice I got from my sister but, it does bug me that he was staring at me so openly the day after.
I present as male at work, female everywhere else.