Mattie, you already look good, so I'm sure that you'll be fine down the road. But might I suggest maybe tempering your expectations? I don't think that there's anything wrong with wanting to be a lovely lady who turns heads for her beauty, not for being clocked (after all, just about every human being wants to look good), but that's not why we transition, is it?
I recently saw this video interview of Dustin Hoffman talking about his decision to make Tootsie:
He said that he had agreed to do the movie only after a make-up and wardrobe test proved that he could be passable on the street, but he was disappointed that he was not more attractive as a woman. And then came the shattering realization that most women have to deal with the reality that they're not born with looks that conform to conventional standards of beauty, and thus do not receive the same kinds of social advantages that "beautiful" women have.
In other words, you are a woman no matter how you look, because as women, most of us are in the same boat.
