Quote from: Simon on July 24, 2013, 03:26:58 AM
I agree and don't understand when trans people say they hate being trans. I'm not trying to down people for their own experience but being trans has shaped who I am. It's not the focus of my life anymore like it was pre transition. It's just kinda there hanging out in the background and visits me once a week via a needle. It's a maintenance issue more than anything and will be even less of an issue in the next year when I can stop binding and get my last court date outta the way.
I did notice the guys who said they hate it are pre medical and/or social transition so maybe that is where their loathing of it comes from?
Not trying to start anything, but as someone who is "post"/in transition medically, I hate being trans. I would have rather been born cis, male or female. It's agony having your mind and body not match up and anyone who can actually put their feelings aside and deal with it is probably pretty strong. While my overall dysphoria has decreased since starting transition, there is nothing I can do to change the fact that I was born and raised as a female for a significant portion of my life. It's not shaped who I am in any positive way and no matter what I do, I just can't live the life I feel I should have. There will always be a reminder that I'm trans under it all and that makes me incredibly angry/bitter.
That being said, I don't see the issue with someone accepting or embracing being trans. If it's been positive in your life in some way, shape, or form, that's good on you and it's none of my business. I do, however, take issue with people telling me to take pride in being trans or to suck it up and get over it because it took a long time/a lot of therapy to accept that I was trans and that transitioning was the best path for me. I don't have to like being trans. I'm transitioning, I'm doing my best to get by, and if I hate being trans, it doesn't mean that I hate other people who are trans or want to force my feelings on their experiences. Just sayin'.
Back to the topic at hand...
To Geek - the Stargate bit is actually a fun idea. Don't you love it when you're given a new language to work with so you can have subtlety and a bit of nerdy style without going overboard?