Quote from: MaryXYX on November 18, 2013, 07:19:15 AM
I went full time and changed my name a couple of weeks later. Doing both at the same time is a better plan.
My employer was very good. I went full time without any warning (normally a very bad plan). The HR guy asked my lots of questions, including "is this intended to be permanent?" then put me against the wall and took a photo for a new ID card. I had the card the same morning, and the staff database changed to match.
Most people don't get it that easy.
I gave a weeks warning (my boss had known for a while though, and was quite prepared when I phoned in tears after an appointment when I realised I couldn't bring my self to change back into 'his' clothes), after that it kind zoomed through
Wednesday - Called in tears saying I couldn't bring myself to change and go into the office
Monday - Told everyone on my team, followed by the other IS teams being updated from their manager
Tuesday - Cascaded to team leaders in other departments to let peeps know to be on best behavior (people were informed that ANY negative comments would result in being sent home for the day/foreseeable future)
Wednesday - Turned up to work as me, got new security pass and log-in details that day, everything apart from pay/tax related details updated to the right name
Some weeks down the line - legal name change complete. I'm still on the payroll under my old name until I get off my arse and tell HMRC, Tax people etc, but everything else was updated when I told them what my name was going to be, not when it was finally complete.