After how many days of SRS surgery can you start sexual intercourse?

[Evolving Beauty]

LOL Northern Jane!

What I don't understand is how they can use the big dilators thing but cannot have intercourse. If I ask my partners to go slow, it'd be kinda the same thing right?

[Jenna Marie]

Not unless your partner was sterilized thoroughly beforehand *and* only made the sorts of movements the dilators do.

My instructions said very clearly and strongly NOT to move the dilator in certain ways (early on) or I'd risk rupturing something and causing serious damage. Also, even Brassard girls don't graduate to the biggest dilators until month 3, and from the conversation here I saw recently, that's the earliest surgeon schedule of the bunch.

[mrs izzy]

Guess until you go through the whole process you will not really understand. It is one HUGE sore HOLE. Then even if you where at the 3 month mark and started to use the OMG (ORANGE MONSTER GUAGE) is still hursts and let me say the PC muscle is a bitch. I am at 6 months and it still is fighting back for me. Hard to get things past, still slow and easy.

When you have the GRS surgery you just do not get this huge hole that offers no resistance. For years it will be fighting back to close up and that is the part of healing. Healing always has some type of discomfort to it.

Maybe who knows, in the 1 month mark who knows what your life holds. But it could be hell if there is anything that goes wrong, up to years to get to the point or worst never. And i said it before up to around the 4 month or so mark does it start not looking like a surgery site and the scar lines start to get hidden by the hair re-growth.

You need to do what you need to do. There is no right or wrong answer here, everyone heals in there own time. Every surgery has it good and bad outcomes. It is MAJOR surgery not just a stich up after a fall.

Lots of luck and i hope you find what you wish in the future.
Izzy

[calico]

LOL Northern Jane!

What I don't understand is how they can use the big dilators thing but cannot have intercourse. If I ask my partners to go slow, it'd be kinda the same thing right?

you don't really get "up" to the "big" dilator till at least month 4, also a lot of people thing the dilators are the same.....Wrong! Chet's set is actually smaller then several other surgeons, such as McGinn, Brassard, and Bowers and I believe even P.A.I I found this out abouth month 2 and actually purchase the blue, green and orange from soulsource enterprises and went to orange at month 4, IMO Chetts dilators are kinda sub-par because my now current bf is much lager than Chetts #4 which he said some may be unable to achieve  .... 

Guess until you go through the whole process you will not really understand. It is one HUGE sore HOLE. Then even if you where at the 3 month mark and started to use the OMG (ORANGE MONSTER GUAGE) is still hursts and let me say the PC muscle is a bitch. I am at 6 months and it still is fighting back for me. Hard to get things past, still slow and easy.

When you have the GRS surgery you just do not get this huge hole that offers no resistance. For years it will be fighting back to close up and that is the part of healing. Healing always has some type of discomfort to it.

Maybe who knows, in the 1 month mark who knows what your life holds. But it could be hell if there is anything that goes wrong, up to years to get to the point or worst never. And i said it before up to around the 4 month or so mark does it start not looking like a surgery site and the scar lines start to get hidden by the hair re-growth.

You need to do what you need to do. There is no right or wrong answer here, everyone heals in there own time. Every surgery has it good and bad outcomes. It is MAJOR surgery not just a stich up after a fall.

Lots of luck and i hope you find what you wish in the future.
Izzy

Totally agree with your post here, and unless shee gets the soulsource set of dilators, she will never get to experience the joy of Mr. Orange  oh and btw until at the very leasy your going to be having to dilate 3 times a day at bout and hour a piece, so clear your schedule doll, you wont be doing much for a bit

[nessa76]

Same here around the same time. Once the hair really started to hide a few of the red areas of my scar line did i start to like how it looked.

Izzy

Once healing has completed, you can use anti-scar cream to help with scar lines 

[Evolving Beauty]

Totally agree with your post here, and unless shee gets the soulsource set of dilators, she will never get to experience the joy of Mr. Orange  oh and btw until at the very leasy your going to be having to dilate 3 times a day at bout and hour a piece, so clear your schedule doll, you wont be doing much for a bit

Are you kidding? ONE HOUR of dilator 3 times per day meaning 3 hours of dilation PER DAY?!!! 

[lovelessheart]

evolving beauty, i think you should evaluate why you really want srs. maybe you should start with a gender therapist.

[mrs izzy]

Once healing has completed, you can use anti-scar cream to help with scar lines 

yes i know, you are missing my point. I am still on the OPs original question and also on one of my replies. And even with scar cream it can take up to a year for the pink to go out of them. For me i have scars 2 years old that still hold some pink, but thats just how i heal.


It is ugly down there up to 4 months or until the hair get longer and hides the scar line.

This is major surgery with many, many scar lines both outside and inside. There are chances of great problems that could happen post op.
All my answers where to help the OP understand what she is getting into and the fact she is a .... worker it is not going to be easy for her for first few months at least if she does not have any issues.

Izzy

[calico]

Are you kidding? ONE HOUR of dilator 3 times per day meaning 3 hours of dilation PER DAY?!!! 

nope that's pretty much what he wants his patients to do, if not that at the bare minimum twice a day at an hour each. (which is what I am doing now)  but for the first 3 months I was doing 3 times a day, it really killed my schedule and fun time    but it could be worse some dr's request up to 5 times a day

[Evolving Beauty]

yes i know, you are missing my point. I am still on the OPs original question and also on one of my replies. And even with scar cream it can take up to a year for the pink to go out of them. For me i have scars 2 years old that still hold some pink, but thats just how i heal.


It is ugly down there up to 4 months or until the hair get longer and hides the scar line.

This is major surgery with many, many scar lines both outside and inside. There are chances of great problems that could happen post op.
All my answers where to help the OP understand what she is getting into and the fact she is a .... worker it is not going to be easy for her for first few months at least if she does not have any issues.

Izzy

I'M SAVED!!! Chett said I can do anal the after 6 weeks.

[Katie]

Your doctor will tell you.