So I am a, very much, in-the-closet M2F cross-dresser. I have had gender identity issues since as long as I can remember (I'm in my early 40s, so it's been a long time). I often fantasize about transitioning, but the practical realities of my life situation basically prevent taking any steps beyond the most superficial in nature (basically growing my hair out is OK, changing my body chemistry....not so much)
Although I was raised by a very loving family, it was also a very conservative, judgmental religious family. A lot of my family's moral values are very generational and and I am generally pretty understanding of this since at their core, my parents are good people, they are just from another time.
Anyway, I am sitting at the Sunday dinner table eating citrus baked chicken with quinoa pilaf, that was purchased money that I earned and prepared with my hands. I am basically the financial rock that supports the entire family.
I'm not sure how the topic came up but my parents decided to express their outrage at the new law in California that would allow guys to "invade" female bathrooms just because they decided that they wanted to feel feminine that day. It's as though the sole purpose and intent of the law was to allow perverted sexual predators legal access to ladies bathrooms and locker rooms. I sat in silence as my parents and my wife expressed their options about how horrible this was.
Now the closet libertarian inside of me acknowledges that the idea of writing state laws about access to restroom facilities seems like a colossal waist of legislative effort, I was still dying a little bit on the inside knowing that my family would never accept my true gender identity. It is sad that things like this just push me deeper and deeper into the closet.