would you rather love someone who is?

[katia]

passionate, intense and exciting but who can be difficult (moody, stubborn, irrational) or someone who is more moderate, even-tempered and dull who is easy to get along with (agreeable, pliable, rational)? would you choose excitement or safety? ecstasy & agony or middle of the road?

[rhonda13000]

How about someone who,

--is one of the finest human beings whom I have ever met, in this life?

--is a model Christian?

--is very intelligent and blessed with an uncannily sharp mind?

--is an independent thinker?

--is strong minded, but not closed-minded?

--is completely, beyond any doubt trustworthy?

--is someone whom I know, beyond the shadow of a doubt, would never do me wrong [and the reciprocal is true]?

--is very gentle and sweet?

--is assertive, but kind?

--is completely void of guile?

--is very beautiful, both inside and out?

--is my best friend?

--is somebody whom I would defend to the death, for I love her like no other human being?

I have just described my spouse.

[Nero]

passionate, intense and exciting but who can be difficult (moody, stubborn, irrational)

I had someone like that and now he's in the ground. He was a modern day cowboy. (Think Billy the Kid) I know I will never love someone that much again.

or someone who is more moderate, even-tempered and dull who is easy to get along with (agreeable, pliable, rational)?

Yep. Nowadays, I just want some boring person to cuddle me.

[Chynna]

It depends on which one makes me laugh more!

The Irrational, immature, individual who can't help but to come up with the stupidest ideas....which i can step in and remind them just how stupid the idea was in the first place

or

The boring, logical, individual who I could set my watch too...this person needs my help the most! life is too short too be that predictable & boring, but theres something to be said about a consistant spouse. You'll always know exactly where you stand!


So Ill go with the comedy factor...

[The Middle Way]

Yup. My best friend has little to no idea what I am talking about a lot of the time, and would NOT appreciate, say this particular forum. > If you knew me, you might think I'd be completely ,  regarding this person (and vice versa...).

But we laugh our asses off together.

I have to go with the comedy factor, also.

[King Malachite]

This is a rather good question.  After carefully thinking about it I have to choose the more even tempered person because I am more of the irrational, moody, and stubborn person so we could balance each other out.

[Shang]

I'd choose someone more even tempered.  I was engaged to someone who was more of the first time and it didn't work out.  I want comfort and stability.  You can be fun loving and still be comfortable and have stability.  I also have someone relying on me to give her a nice household:  my dog.  Honestly, she's my kid and I don't want to live in a household with a person that can fly off the handle and decide to take it out on her.  I would severely hurt anyone who so much as harmed a hair on my dog.