You know, despite Manning's actions, crimes, etc. if she is truly trans, we should take this as an opportunity. Yes, we are in bad light for this. But, we are still getting light. I think we can at least be thankful for that. Perhaps with Manning being a national headline, people will start to try and understand what transgender really is, and hopefully not make the assumption that all of us are bad.
And I also think we need to be open to Manning (there's another topic somewhere for that). We've all done things we aren't proud of, but we need to support each other's journeys despite that. I don't think that's too much to ask for Manning.