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Started by Kei22, August 16, 2013, 11:44:46 PM

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Kei22

Feel welcome to give me some tips about what haircut should i get.

Something that brings up my angular face but also semi long*no buzzcuts xD*

I love asian haircuts. They look so wild like cool bed-hair ;p

So.  This is my current cut:





Please ignore the little thing that decided that under my lip was a good place to live...

Sooo...well.thanks a lot guys!! :D
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thatboyfresh

What about something shorter on the sides with a quiff on top. its sorrta like (below) but you can play with the lengths.



Also I found some men with more angular faces like your shape. I dont know if you would like something like this







The problem I find with "Asian" type haircuts is that they tend to be more feminine and on the androgynous side.

Goodluck!
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Chaos

Best place to start would be here

https://www.google.com/search?q=male+hairstyles&tbm=isch&tbo=u&source=univ&sa=X&ei=oD0PUpjOLrSGiQLs24CYBg&sqi=2&ved=0CCsQsAQ&biw=1440&bih=785

Then you can see for yourself and judge what makes you feel comfortable AND look good

Personally i will be going with styles that will hang and take the look from any cheek bones i have





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Jack_M

Personally, I say if you want to pass when you're not on T, don't go for longer cuts. They can make cis guys get misgendered here and there so it's not really the best way to go.  There's still some shorter cuts that aren't buzzcut. You can leave it longer on top and just get a shorter cut at the side for example, like the pics thatboyfresh posted. It's hard to tell someone what cut to get because it's best for an individual to decide what they actually like. Just try not to go too short too fast. That way it gives you something to play with if you feel it doesn't work.

Another thing. If you have a wave in your hair, it really is best to go short or at the very least straighten it right out! Even if it's natural it looks more girly because girls will use product and blow drying to get that look. I have a natural wave in my hair and I freakin hate it!  When it was longer I straightened it into an Asian type style like a shorter Stephen Chow style, but I only had this because my parents insisted on longer hair. So I could leave it as is and it looked girly, or straighten it and at least have a chance at passing as male. But I pretty much always passed with short hair. With the Asian style it was 50/50.

My brothers have the same sort of hair. When the older of the two was younger and grew it out he hated it because people misgendered him. But after puberty he's worn his hair both longer and short and gets away with it long because of his voice and facial hair that he didn't have pre-puberty.
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Kei22

Thanks!. I would like to keep my bangs but i can't cut them short because of the curl at the ends thing.

My hair is straight with curled ends. 

So i was thinking of cutting it as you mention,side and back.

Maybe to the neck area. Not much shorter.  Maybe a Pixie hsircut?

Also,i don't want the hair to be all straight when i cut it,how do i ask for that?. I still would like sort of a wild look lol.*but i think it becomes like that naturally after hair starts to grow?*

Another thing,i wear earrings*the ones that are just a bead ...studs?* should i stop wearing those?.

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BrotherBen

That is up to you. Lots of guys choose to wear earrings, but IMO even a simple stud is still feminizing, especially worn in both ears.


Be weird. Be random. Be who you are. Because you never know who would love the person you hide.
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BeefxCake

if you layer your a hair a lot it'll take the weight fromt eh ends and give you more curly ends. it breaks up the main curl into several. i did this with my hair and it flips all over int he back which i like the varied length.
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thatboyfresh

Quote from: Kei22 on August 17, 2013, 07:54:45 AM
Thanks!. I would like to keep my bangs but i can't cut them short because of the curl at the ends thing.

My hair is straight with curled ends. 

So i was thinking of cutting it as you mention,side and back.

Maybe to the neck area. Not much shorter.  Maybe a Pixie hsircut?

Also,i don't want the hair to be all straight when i cut it,how do i ask for that?. I still would like sort of a wild look lol.*but i think it becomes like that naturally after hair starts to grow?*

Another thing,i wear earrings*the ones that are just a bead ...studs?* should i stop wearing those?.

First things first. Don't ever conform to what society deems "male" just because you think you have to. Do what feels good. Do what you like.
That being said I know you are trying to pass for male and not get misgendered. "MOST" males tend to wear only one earring and very minimal jewelry. Sometimes I wear studs in both ears and if I am wearing some sort of hoop I wear it in only one ear. I think things like jewelry arn't really that make or break when it comes to passing because most of it is unisex unless you are wearing some gold mother of pearl chandler type earrings. Back in the old days I used to refrain from wearing bright colors because I thought it wasnt manly. But now I wear any color in the rainbow because that's what I like!.
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Chaos

Yeah i dont set out to *pass* because i already do and because i am confident in who i am.So for me,i want to have something natural and not something that screams *im trying to hard!* i mean idc if someone says *oh dude,long is girly* well it CAN be depending on how its done.As long as im happy with me,screw everyone else lol and i think mainly if you went in with that same mind set,you can pretty much pull anything off.be yourself and be confident in that
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Mattfromengland



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thatboyfresh

Yea I think it fits men with more angular faces. Also men with rounder or oval faces. You still get to keep some length that you can style in many different ways without coming off to "femme"
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Mattfromengland

Quote from: thatboyfresh on August 18, 2013, 01:38:45 PM
Yea I think it fits men with more angular faces. Also men with rounder or oval faces. You still get to keep some length that you can style in many different ways without coming off to "femme"

Mmm good point about the little bit of length making the style adaptable.


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Jack_M

Quote from: Chaos on August 17, 2013, 07:59:38 PM
Yeah i dont set out to *pass* because i already do and because i am confident in who i am.So for me,i want to have something natural and not something that screams *im trying to hard!* i mean idc if someone says *oh dude,long is girly* well it CAN be depending on how its done.As long as im happy with me,screw everyone else lol and i think mainly if you went in with that same mind set,you can pretty much pull anything off.be yourself and be confident in that

I agree people should do whatever they like, my suggestion was merely with regards to passing. If you already have a male voice or facial hair, then you can pass regardless of hair length. But if you're not on T and have no facial hair and your voice isn't masculine yet (there's a male resonance so it's more to do with that than just deep) then if you want to pass, in my opinion, long hair isn't going to go in your favour. And long hair when you have curly or wavy hair is especially not going to help. In all the long hair examples I just can't see any coming off as masculine for someone without a male voice or hint of facial hair. The last one only sold masculinity with a hint of facial hair. The first one is very feminine.
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Chaos

Quote from: Jack_M on August 18, 2013, 06:05:08 PM
I agree people should do whatever they like, my suggestion was merely with regards to passing. If you already have a male voice or facial hair, then you can pass regardless of hair length. But if you're not on T and have no facial hair and your voice isn't masculine yet (there's a male resonance so it's more to do with that than just deep) then if you want to pass, in my opinion, long hair isn't going to go in your favour. And long hair when you have curly or wavy hair is especially not going to help. In all the long hair examples I just can't see any coming off as masculine for someone without a male voice or hint of facial hair. The last one only sold masculinity with a hint of facial hair. The first one is very feminine.

Yeah.Im pre everything atm but i think confidence is whats helping me pass.The pics i posted openly were ones i was going for personally and not suggested for the OP (i finally decided on a style just like i posted for myself but none that i posted.much better in my opinion) tho the link i gave was.to help them make their own choice.i tend to look at it as (im basiclly myself but in a different form.knowing myself and who i am,how would i do this or that) so i hoped the link would help them find their self per say.but i agree that its hard for many to pass at all and it takes alot of hard work to do so.i wish the OP luck and happiness in everything they do :)
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Jack_M

Quote from: Chaos on August 18, 2013, 06:19:58 PM
Yeah.Im pre everything atm but i think confidence is whats helping me pass.The pics i posted openly were ones i was going for personally and not suggested for the OP (i finally decided on a style just like i posted for myself but none that i posted.much better in my opinion) tho the link i gave was.to help them make their own choice.i tend to look at it as (im basiclly myself but in a different form.knowing myself and who i am,how would i do this or that) so i hoped the link would help them find their self per say.but i agree that its hard for many to pass at all and it takes alot of hard work to do so.i wish the OP luck and happiness in everything they do :)

Defo agree with confidence. I had pretty dang long hair when I walked into a barbers a number of months back to get it cut and the guy just remarked that it must have been quite some time since I got it cut, making a joke of it. He was strictly speaking right, but it was also me finally stopping hiding it from my parents whom I used to Skype regularly. So I was passing and presenting as male for a while before I got it cut. But I also found the short cut gave me more confidence too, but more because I could be more care free and bed hair about my appearance. With longer hair I had to straighten it and style it and it felt like a girly thing to do even though it was creating a more masculine look so I think it made me dysphoric to care about my hair so much. I also had a deep voice that helped me pass as a teenage boy so I guess that helped sell longer hair. Oh, and I live in a predominantly Asian area, so even though I'm only 5'8", I look tall! Lol. But I do pass better with short hair than long now, or at least get less 2nd looks.
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