I'm reflecting on Donna's post.
I had a similar sort of experience. One man I was nervous coming out to was a guy who I worked with for many years ago.. He is a big Ocker guy, rough as guts and very nice and tolerant.
When I did come out to him, in a drunken out of control crying conversation when my life was in tatters and trying to live as a guy, he hugged me and kissed me and said everything would be OK. He knew about Cindy for years before I came out and he and his wife and children have been awesome.
He is still one of very few work colleagues who when we meet will walk up to me, kiss me and treat me as he treats every other female friend.
I like men. I love many of the men on this site, they are very close to my heart. Some are also in line to be a floor rug decoration

(sorry honey!).
People are people and it is people who can understand and accept themselves that are nice to be around. But many people be they trans* or cis don't understand themselves. That can be a problem.