Coming out to extended family?

[bender]

(Sorry if i'm posting this in the wrong place)
I have been looking for a job for a while, and i decided since i live in a very conservative state, i should get a legal name change first. So far i am only out to my therapist, my parents and people on the internet. i want to come out to most of my family before i change my name, i'm just not sure how i will do it. i'm thinking about either coming out to my nana first, and see how that goes, or having my parents tell everyone for me. the only problem is i don't think my parents are very supportive, it's been over a year since i cam out and they still think i'm just confused.
I know only i will ultimately know what the best option for me is, but any advice or stories about how you came out and how it went would be very much appreciated.

[Devlyn]

Here's some reading material while we wait for the other posters to show up with their experiences:

https://www.susans.org/wiki/Category:Family_and_friends

https://www.susans.org/wiki/Category:Coming_out

Hugs, Devlyn

[LordKAT]

My name change came first, the newspaper told a few and they told the rest. I  never declared that I was changing anything, only answered questions and requested that it not be told to strangers.

[ErinM]

I started with my mother and very close friends, and then progressed further with other family members based on how frequently I saw them.

Extended family and acquaintances I rarely if eve saw found out by Facebook and the gossip that followed.

I waited until after coming out en masse on Facebook to apply for my name change.