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Transition and Starting a Career

Started by how-audrey, August 22, 2013, 01:27:08 AM

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how-audrey

One year and three months ago, I graduated college with high hopes for my career in video production. I worked hard in school, hoping to build a strong portfolio and resume. I made some choices over the past year that didn't benefit me too much. I changed cities twice before moving back home, spending all of my money in the process. When I moved back home at the start of this summer, my luck started to change. Though I just moved 2,000 miles away from the city, I was accepted into an internship and they wanted to make it work. A week later I interviewed with a production company and was told I'd be starting in August.

Umm.. It's August and I heard nothing regarding the job. So, I feel like I wasted a summer I could've used applying to other things. The internship would've been an AMAZING opportunity had I heard back a couple weeks earlier and stayed on the West coast. I would've been doing things every single day and meeting tons of people in the industry and community, but instead I just edit a few things they send me. It's not a total waste though, and I'm glad they gave me the opportunity to do it still.

As far as transition goes, I am starting HRT next month and hope to go full time at some point after 6 months.

How can I start a career and transition at the same time? In a field where you have to know people, coming out as trans is going to make me know less people. It seems like most people either transition before or after they have a career. Maybe I'm just over thinking it, but I'm really worried.

I'd like to hear from Jennygirl.. since we're in sort of the same general industry. I'm not really in it yet, but whatevs.
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Cindy

Just a general comment as I'm very well established so not in the same situation.

One major factor is your confidence and passability.

I'm VERY confident and can never be in stealth so I am very recognisable and I'm sure a number of people know me as Cindy who used to be a guy.  I use that to my advantage. People recognise me so I make sure they know me.

It does work in my case, for example the CEO was giving a presentation and he ran out of time to answer questions, he could see I wanted to ask something so he walked straight up to me and asked how I was etc and we had a chance for a private conversation. No one else got that chance so I used it.

In an industry were being identified and having a profile it could be a case of no publicity is bad publicity.

And if after an interview somone says on the panel 'How about  that girl Evey? Oh yes everyone will remember you and that can only be good. As long as you are good!
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how-audrey

Being memorable for any reason while still being a good candidate could be more positive than I thought early in my transition.

I plan working as hard as I can on my voice and things to help my passability so it is doesnt need to be something to worry about.
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Emmaline

A lot of companies are trying to be very PC or at least seen to be.  This actually can give you an advantage against candidates with the same experience and abilities.
I work in fx, and at one stage got pretty much every show reel in Australia land on my desk.  I can tell you it made not one jot of difference who applied, but what they could do and how well they interviewed.
My advice would be focus on a great reel, brush up on people skills and just be confident.  Make it clear that, yes you are trans but no, its only a small part of your life and it wont effect how well you work in a team.

Good luck!
Body... meet brain.  Now follow her lead and there will be no more trouble, you dig?



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Emmaline

I have the flip side of this, btw.  I built a very good career and made a name- but now of course I am going to have to change that name as part of transition.  To be happy I dont want to be reminded of my past life as a guy... but it is going to be with me now whenever I work.  I used to have people come up to me in studios and say they had seen my lectures or bought my dvd.  But thats not who I look like now and my name will be different.  All my film and game credits are under my old name.  I have to therefore explain my gender in every interview... or come out in conversations about past work or I will get a name as someone who takes credit for others work.  Its annoying.
Body... meet brain.  Now follow her lead and there will be no more trouble, you dig?



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how-audrey

Thanks for the response Emmaline. Self-branding was something that I was considering because of the name change. On the one hand, I want to distance myself from 'his' work and start anew, but on the other hand there are a few projects I don't want to leave behind. I can definitely see how that could be a big issue when you're established.
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michelle666

I'm in the process of staring anew right now. I was in the tech field for almost 13 years and was burnt out on it. I got laid off in April and decided to go back to school to get my cosmetology license. Luckily, it's a very open minded field and the places that I'm looking to work are mainly in GLBTG resort towns.
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Emmaline

Fortunately fx, film making, video production, radio, design, art, makeup, fashion etc are all pretty good for us, (left wing areas) as are banks.

Still, individuals can still be problematic.   A company may want to hire me but will I work my way up through the ranks. .. well, thats a different story.

By handing in my boys membership card I loose a fair chunk of salary.  Still... worth it for boobs and kitten heels.

Body... meet brain.  Now follow her lead and there will be no more trouble, you dig?



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Emmaline

Oh.. edited out my...

Good luck with the new start Michelle666!  I was thinking a sea change with my career but the money is too good...  gotta get me that grs money bag.  :)
Body... meet brain.  Now follow her lead and there will be no more trouble, you dig?



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michelle666

Quote from: Emmaline on August 27, 2013, 01:45:33 AM
Oh.. edited out my...

Good luck with the new start Michelle666!  I was thinking a sea change with my career but the money is too good...  gotta get me that grs money bag.  :)

Thanks! I'm going to be making less money than I made in IT but will be much happier.
To pay for my grs, I've decided to start doing wedding photography again on the side. I absolutely hate doing it, but it did buy me a BMW a few years back with cash that costs more than grs. It only took one season of weddings to do that.
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