One of my friends is having a really rough time. He went all summer passing at a summer school program we did, but back at his normal school, he doesn't pass at all and he hasn't gotten to start T yet. He's got his letter, but his mom hasn't scheduled an appointment yet. He's also got a new teacher whom he emailed before school to let her know his situation, and she keeps using the wrong pronouns. He thinks it's because he must look too female for her to use male pronouns, but he's being overcritical of himself- he looks amazingly masculine for someone not on T yet!
So he's really having a rough time at school, not passing, being called the wrong pronouns, and he's been getting bullied too, like guys are calling him a dyke and crap like that.
I hardly get to see him now since we go to different schools, and I really only get to see him on some weekends. I want to help cheer him up, but I'm not sure what I can do. I'm also not sure if I SHOULD say anything to him, because he hasn't told me about this himself, I hear it from one of his school friends. Do you guys have any ideas?