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escapism, the main addiction for trans people

Started by Madison (kiara jamie), March 15, 2011, 02:29:58 AM

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Erik Ezrin

I love viking/folk metal too! Folk rock is great as well (think Omnia, Faun, Irfan, Moon and the Nightspirit,  and lots of others, but I think those are more 'metal' than 'rock', hmmm...)

Well, as for escapism, I LARP, which is probably pretty escapist stuff, lol! I always larped as a female char though, until I found out that playing as the 'opposite' gender is actually accepted (not only among transpeople), as long as you can pull it off (Heck I can! :P). So since shortly I'm happily playing a male character. Even though it's not real, and OOC (= Out Of Character) people still talk to me like a girl (though some kept calling me 'him' just for fun and to tease me, and I actually like it, lol! I told them they should call me Erik when calling me a guy OOC, and not my IC (= In Character) name, telling them it's my 'male name', and they happily bought it, thinking it was some fun joke. So now I got the "nickname" Erik amongst my LARP friends, lolol! If they knew...! ::)) Even though they see it as a joke, I damn love it! :)

And before... I used to play lots of games (mostly Runescape, WoW for a few months, but also some 'non internet' games) and write stories as well. When I was a kid I used to draw A LOT (still do, but less, actually), and play 'adventure' with my action figures (I actually identified with none of them, as they were just characters of their own, but funnily enough they were all guys, lol), but whether that counts as escapism... I dunno, lol! Would building with blocks count as escapism too then? ::)

And lastly lots of music. Listening, but also singing (I'm not that good, really. I recorded myself and even though I hit the notes I sound pretty nasal and just crappy), and playing piano (improvising, mostly, but also learning a new song now and then, or practicing a new technique)
I think mainly Pink Floyd, and viking/folk/celtic metal are good for 'escaping' and getting some ->-bleeped-<- out. Though hard rock can be great too.
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Carrie Liz

This is one reason why I'm such a fan of folk music and singer-songwriter, and really don't like modern music. Because there's no post-production, no BS, just you and a couple of friends and some guitars, and the natural beauty of the human voice, with all of its flaws intact.

It's a beautiful thing. A beautiful natural flower growing wild. While modern music to me feels like fake flowers... all the same, all manufactured to be perfect, and therefore boring, boring, boring.
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generalchaos34

Ive found myself more and more getting into escapist fantasies these days in order to avoid issues having to do with GID. For years i played WoW at the expense of socializing, now I agressively model and play Warhammer 40k and play DnD. Granted I am a huge nerd, but sometimes i feel that i get waaaay into these things in order to not have to think about the stuff that truly bothers me! I know i have to deal with this one day, but until then it looks like i may be filling myself up with "other" things. Thankfully i worked up the willpower to quit WoW after 8 years of solid addiction, maybe now i can get this trans-monster slain.
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