My first post-op orgasm... (First time update)

[Lin]

Just 1 day before 3 monthes post-op, I just got my first clito orgasm! The feeling was great and as intesive as the pre-op one. What surprised me was that it wasn't so difficult to get there. I used the similar pre-op way to masturbate, and the feeling turned out pretty much like my pre-op dry orgasm. After that I got quite tired immediately; however, not long after, I got aroused again, and I was able to get the second orgasm... Now I'm just 3 monthes post-op and pain free that is very important, cause when you feel no pain, you become more brave and more comfortable to play yourself, and that helps you to get there... At present, I still feel my dilation is very tight, but I'm pretty sure when my dilation gets less tight and more comfortable, the chance to get vaginal orgasm would be quite high... I'm looking forward to it... Btw, I'm a Dr. Brassard girl, class of March, 2007.

[Laura Eva B]

Well done Asian Rose !

I had my first post-op "O" on day 151 "yes I was counting  " ..... it was shall I say WOW       (!), it came, faded, came, faded, in waves and went on and on for soo long, so similar to my old orgasms when I was not "T-inibited" by AAs, but just so much more intense.

Had lots of orgasms since, but its far from automatic, I really need to be relaxed and thinking the right thoughts too, but none have come remotely near that first time  .

Maybe I'm still inhibiting myself by trying too hard  ?

Laura x

[Lin]

Hi Laura, thanks. Actually I count everyday too, and my first post-op orgasm was on day 91... I guess most of us count the number of day after the op... I was counting on which day I'd leave the hospital, on which day the stent would be taken out, on which day I can start to do what, and there were so many first time this or that happened during the period, first time walking outdoor, first time wearing highheels, first time wearing pants/jeans, first time crossing legs, first time playing tennis... and now I'm looking forward to my first time doing rollerblade, first time cycling, first time intercouse and maybe first time vaginal orgasm!!! 

PS. If you feel you might be inhibiting yourself by trying too hard, maybe just be a bit more relaxed, and sometimes adult videos or books might help too...

[tinkerbell]

That's very interesting.  Thank you for sharing.   

tink

[Lin]

That's very interesting.  Thank you for sharing.   

tink

You're more than welcome, Tink. In fact, I've been like to say thank you to you and Steph since a long time for sharing your post-op experiences here. Cause during the first  2 monthes of my post-op recovering period, actually I checked up every of all your post-op posts, and that helped and encouraged me a lot, cause at that stage I was fighting with pain, mostly staying in bed alone and doing endless dilation everyday, so at that time the most interesting thing for me was to read your posts and compare your expereinces to my own situation... You know what? Actually I was not only counting the days for myself, but also counting on day xx, what you were able to do, according to your posts... When I found my recovering speed was similar to yours, I feel much releif and secure...

Now it's been around 3 and 1/2 monthes after my op, and I'm pain free and able to get 2-3 times clitor orgasm per week regularly, and I started to play tennis at around 2 monthes post-op (was difficult at begining), and now I can run fast and play competetive tennis...

PS. I've never visited a forum like this one before my op, and I just found it after the op, while I stayed in bed everyday with my laptop... I appreciate so many friends sharing their expereinces and knowledges here... I haven't posted more messages here as I wish, cause my English is not so good (my third langauge), so hope I didn't make too many mistakes for you to understand what I wrote...

AS

[melissa90299]

I think I am going to "save myself" for a partner to get me off. I am not dating anyone but I have a couple prospects and one woman told me flat out that she wants "some of that" when I get back. Something tells me she would work it out for hours if  need be.

[Nicole]

i had mine about 4 months after my SRS and it took a lot of work.

I think the best thing about orgasms now is what you can do to get there.
for me, nothing beats the shower head 

[Luc]

Thank you all for sharing. I feel all warm and fuzzy inside. Actually... group masturbation time! Who's bringing the double-headed dildo?

[Nero]

Well done Asian Rose !

I had my first post-op "O" on day 151 "yes I was counting  " ..... it was shall I say WOW       (!), it came, faded, came, faded, in waves and went on and on for soo long, so similar to my old orgasms when I was not "T-inibited" by AAs, but just so much more intense.

Had lots of orgasms since, but its far from automatic, I really need to be relaxed and thinking the right thoughts too, but none have come remotely near that first time  .

Maybe I'm still inhibiting myself by trying too hard  ?

Laura x

POV from an ftm:
I doubt you're trying too hard, Laura.
I have no idea about a 'male' orgasm, but the female orgasm varies greatly. It's almost a different experience every time. Sometimes it takes less than 2 minutes to get off, sometimes it takes 15. The only time mine take any longer than 10 min is when I'm on some types of medication. Also, (and I suspect it's the same with male orgasms) if it's been a while since your last one, it's going to be so strong you can barely handle it.
Over time, you'll notice which way you need to be touched to achieve which orgasm you're in the mood for.
And don't forget to stretch your limbs afterwards. The muscles tense up and can be so rigid, it's hard to walk following an orgasm. You'll get the hang of it.  

[Thundra]

Also, (and I suspect it's the same with male orgasms) if it's been a while since your last one, it's going to be so strong you can barely handle it.

Talk about profound. I don't have 'em that often, cause I'm never in the mood, but when I do, I am worthless for the rest of the day. The effect lasts for hours afterward, and the emotional side effects lasts for days. That is where the 'glowing' thing comes from. It's real.

Posted on: July 03, 2007, 02:25:07 PM
Oh yeah, and like Lay's potato chips, one is never enough.

[Lin]

Day 124, first time swimming/bikini
Day 133, first time beach volleyball (first time in my life too)

:-)

[Diane]

Asianrose. For English being your third language, you write very well.

[Jay]

Asianrose. For English being your third language, you write very well.

I second that!

[Lin]

Thank you very much for your compliments, Diane and Jaston :-)

[melissa90299]

Wow! Started fooling around a little with my brand new thing, just started kind of a patting it, this felt really good, so I kept it up and brought myself right up to the brink, it was really late and quite frankly I started worrying about disturbing the neighbors!

[Rara]

ok.... well for me it is a toes up and explode whoosh........ va va vooooooom!!! I think that says it all. lol

Asianrose,

within your writing it comes across that you are such a bubbly-living life kind of girl. It is a pleasure to read of your adventures post-op and I wish for you every success in all you do. Take it steady, give the body time to heal... remember that you have had major surgery and your body needs time to adjust.

I too have a list of things that I want to achieve..... goes back to my teenage years. The first bikini, the first thong, (which fits and looks right) I refused to wear one pre-op. the first low-cut dress or top... etc the list was quite long... Have achieved many of these now but there are still some to do... all good fun.

Rara. x

[Hazumu]

Asianrose. For English being your third language, you write very well.

あのぅー日本語が話せませんか？

カレン

(just asking AsianRose if one of her languages was Japanese...)

[Lin]

ok.... well for me it is a toes up and explode whoosh........ va va vooooooom!!! I think that says it all. lol

Asianrose,

within your writing it comes across that you are such a bubbly-living life kind of girl. It is a pleasure to read of your adventures post-op and I wish for you every success in all you do. Take it steady, give the body time to heal... remember that you have had major surgery and your body needs time to adjust.

I too have a list of things that I want to achieve..... goes back to my teenage years. The first bikini, the first thong, (which fits and looks right) I refused to wear one pre-op. the first low-cut dress or top... etc the list was quite long... Have achieved many of these now but there are still some to do... all good fun.

Rara. x

Hi Rara, thanks for your good words and wish... How long have you been post-op? and where did you have your SRS? If you prefer to talk that pravitely, you can pm me... Thanks.

A.R. x

Posted on: August 14, 2007, 12:07:09 AM

Asianrose. For English being your third language, you write very well.

あのぅー日本語が話せませんか？

カレン

(just asking AsianRose if one of her languages was Japanese...)

Actually, the languages I speak are Mandarine, Cantonese, English and French.

[Lianne]

Well here goes, I had my first orgasm, 6 weeks post-op (Organically)< My husband. I was informed by my surgeon, that it was okay, and I could start having sex 6 weeks after my surgery. It was an amazing feeling! However, it takes a little pressure and manipulation to get there. My neo clit is quite electrifying and sometimes a bit to sensitive for me. It's not as wet or messy as a male orgasm, nor is it dry for me. I get a little clear discharge. Not much just a drop or so. Medical science amazes me, WOW!

[tinkerbell]

You know, it is my understanding that sometimes (perhaps most of the time?) post-op women claim not to feel anything during sex after SRS.  While this may be true for some women, I think it also depends on the partner of such women!  If the partner is a dull person who doesn't know how to please a woman, well, I'm sorry to say but such woman will never feel anything at all; however if the partner knows "his game" (talking from the perspective of a hetero girl here), things will turn out differently.  >

tink