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Before 'unpassability' was attacking me, now 'aging' is attacking me :(

Started by Evolving Beauty, August 27, 2013, 07:46:55 AM

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Sibila

This stuff is one of the reasons I remained pre op. I just cannot bear the idea to be seen as trans when I have a vagina.
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Beth Andrea

QuoteNow I've reached my 30's and things are reverting but getting worse. I am passing but looking less beautiful. As time passed by I manage to do my FFS and correct my flaws and 'unpassabilities', but now aging is attacking and my beauty has faded a lot and this is getting me depressed big time. Now they don't clock me as much as before but I no more look as attractive as I was.

Welcome to the world of the grown-ups.

Beauty--youthful beauty--does not last. Enjoy it while you have it, but understand you will not be that way forever. What you need to do now is, start seeing yourself at the age you are, as beautiful. Start seeing other people who are at the age you are, as beautiful.

And consider that you will only get older as time goes on...start looking at older people as beautiful, also. "Beauty" isn't what your body looks like, it's how you are on the inside.

Once you see the inner beauty as better more desirable than outer beauty, that's when it's easier to let go of the youth.
...I think for most of us it is a futile effort to try and put this genie back in the bottle once she has tasted freedom...

--read in a Tessa James post 1/16/2017
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Janine-Janine

LOL. I'm terrible. I think I'll look like Joan Rivers when I'm 70 if I ever get to be more solvent. :)

(Only joking. Probably.)
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