Zumbagirl's words are appreciated. I would certainly want someone to avoid transitioning in the first place if it could be avoided. But also, for some people it might have felt right at the time but maybe not so much now. That was the case with me. I am hoping that by more people coming forward it isn't taken as being anti-trans - but just showing that there are always different possibilities in life no matter where you are. And that, yes, you probably don't want to be post op MTF who now identifies as male again - but is that IS you it doesn't have to be a living hell either. Life goes on - enjoy it!