Jealous spouses boyfriends girlfriend etc.?

[Tatyana]

Has anyone had any problems with jealous wives, husbands, girlfriends or boyfriends?  Today a coworker told me I got him in trouble with his girlfriend?  I asked how.  He just said "she don't like you"   I asked him what he was talking about but he wouldn't tell me. I tried asking him again later but he just ignored me. Now this is driving me crazy. I can't imagine how I got him in trouble. I've never met his girlfriend as far as I know.  I've never been involved with this guy. We are friends at work but that's it. I can't stop thinking about it now.  Anyone else run into this kind of thing? 

[Danielle Emmalee]

Not really sure what's going on in this situation...Does the guy know you are trans?

[Tatyana]

Not really sure what's going on in this situation...Does the guy know you are trans?

It's not a secret but a lot of people at work have questioned me about it.  Some of my own friends have questioned me about it and even wanted to look. 

[Danielle Emmalee]

One possibility, even though he might not have asked, he might be one of the ones who wants a "look" and got caught by his girlfriend looking it up on the internet
Another possibility, he complimented your looks to his girlfriend, she didn't like it.
And another one, she sees you as a woman and some women don't like their men working with women.
And a fourth possibility, she is trans-phobic and thinks you will contaminate him somehow by being around him

[Tatyana]

One possibility, even though he might not have asked, he might be one of the ones who wants a "look" and got caught by his girlfriend looking it up on the internet
Another possibility, he complimented your looks to his girlfriend, she didn't like it.
And another one, she sees you as a woman and some women don't like their men working with women.
And a fourth possibility, she is trans-phobic and thinks you will contaminate him somehow by being around him

I think most would like to have a look just to see if its true.  As for the girlfriend,  he just didn't give me enough information.  I'm going to keep pressing the issue though.  You can't just tell someone that and walk away.

[Danielle Emmalee]

I think most would like to have a look just to see if its true.  As for the girlfriend,  he just didn't give me enough information.  I'm going to keep pressing the issue though.  You can't just tell someone that and walk away.

I'd say forget it.....why is it so important?

[Tatyana]

I'd say forget it.....why is it so important?

It's not important I'm just really curious.  It's a mystery.

[KarynMcD]

Anyone else run into this kind of thing?

You mean crazy women who get jealous of another women because their boyfriends mention them? That never happens.

He's mentioned you in a nice way or she has seen you interact with him in a way that you were friendly towards him and since she is so insecure, she now hates you.
Or maybe she was the one who called you a "skinny whore." Was she alone in the car? Was her boyfriend there and said "hey that's my coworker!"

[Tatyana]

You mean crazy women who get jealous of another women because their boyfriends mention them? That never happens.

He's mentioned you in a nice way or she has seen you interact with him in a way that you were friendly towards him and since she is so insecure, she now hates you.
Or maybe she was the one who called you a "skinny whore." Was she alone in the car? Was her boyfriend there and said "hey that's my coworker!"

No the skinny whore lady was old.  This guy is my age and I'm sure his girlfriend is too.

[Emmaline]

Yeah its the curse of being gorgeous.  I hope to be in a position where I make girls insanely jealous one day... lol.

Modern family did an episode on this recently.  Gloria is treated bad by other women because they think she is out to steal their husbands. 

[KabitTarah]

If only.
Not that I want this (and not that it'll ever happen), but it would be pretty hilarous to make my (ex)-wife-(to-be) jealous of my looks

[Alainaluvsu]

Welcome to being female

There's a couple that comes over to my place to hang out with my roommate all the time. I swear up and down the girl doesn't like me. The guy, I think, does like me a little bit. Whenever I get home he says hi and reacts to greetings, while the girl just stays quiet. I mentioned it to my roommate and she didn't notice.

B**** I don't want that young boyfriend of yours anyways, lol! It's not like I ever talk to him. She needs to stop being so damn insecure. I can't stand women like that. Grow the flip up already.

[nessa76]

Welcome to being female

There's a couple that comes over to my place to hang out with my roommate all the time. I swear up and down the girl doesn't like me. The guy, I think, does like me a little bit. Whenever I get home he says hi and reacts to greetings, while the girl just stays quiet. I mentioned it to my roommate and she didn't notice.

B**** I don't want that young boyfriend of yours anyways, lol! It's not like I ever talk to him. She needs to stop being so damn insecure. I can't stand women like that. Grow the flip up already.

I can't stand women like that either, they are damn insecure. I remember being out once and this girl was going off her head because her boyfriend was staring at my cleavage (breasts) lol   I wouldn't mind after that she gave me her phone number, I only noticed she was making excuse after excuse for not befriending me. I always thought it were men that are insecure, its women that are lol 

[nessa76]

She probably thought i'd might run off with her boyfriend    Just pathetic, i think its disgusting the amount of insecure women there are out there. Well, i know i've been told also that i'm gorgeous from a lot of men but sorry, i can get a man of my own thank you lol