Baby, my career though horrible being around the destruction and death made me realize that life is short. Go for it. None of us are promised tomorrow so let no one dictate what you do or how you live. It took a while I admit, but now that I am there, YES! Really, why worry about others, those that judge have closets too. PS I f you do get inked make it one your true gender can live with. I am into flowers now, but cant get much now, have to save for the SRS. Hopefully I will get half off *giggles*.