Hi everyone! So I wanted to ask a specific question about voice, one of the tricker parts of transitioning. At least, it definitly has been for me. I've been trying for quite a while to get a female voice working, but so far I've had no luck, and I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong. I can make my voice pretty high pitched, but it still sounds resoundingly male, even when I try to squeeze it. I've tried the CandiFLA method from Youtube, where I'm supposed to switch over from male falsetto to female falsetto and then softening it, but I can't seem to do it. Whenever I think I have crossed the barrier, so to speak, when I lower the pitch I find I'm back into a male range, with chest vibration and everything. Also, I'm not at all sure what Candi means by 'softening'...?
I was wondering if anyone has any tips and tricks they would be willing to share about how to overcome this, I would really appreciate it. It must be something I'm doing wrong at a basic level...