My first date...

[Shantel]

But I am not sure if others here are just as thick-skinned and flameproof as the two of You . If the hell will break loose - the innocent civilian population (i.e. women) might suffer -  as usually.

General Schwatzenegger referred to it as collateral damage.

[Alainaluvsu]

Alaina and I are buds, she's a big little girl, she can take the heat!

We are. All is well. Trust us

[Sammy]

Trust us

This is my biggest issue

[sazzy]

I can totally see why if it was posed as 'wife wondering if you'd sleep with somebody else' that people could think it might cause problems.. She was doing the equivalent of asking her best friend if she thought her date was hot,though. She was as excited and nervous as I was lol

I wouldnt lie to her even if it did threaten to end our marriage, we've been honest since I first came out to her 2 years ago and we both said that we will always love each other, and try our best but neither of us could have any certainty about what lay ahead if I was to transition, not just from her side but mine too, there are simply too many unknowns..

We made a deal not to add anymore unkowns to that so if we have any worries, concerns or whatever, we speak up no matter what.

She trusts me, I trust her...we're not swingers but we're not jealous or paranoid about sex with others either.

Thanks for all the comments. I think sharing all of our different experiences on here no matter how varied can only be a good thing xxx