Dear Friends,
I had been an active member since some years already and had participated on some threads always to the direction of helping others and giving experiences and discoveries that develops around this very very erotic and addict hobbie of all of us CDs TVs etc.
I decided to collect all my experiences which i record them on a personal journal, since the first time i went out terrified to the last time i had my nice relaxing out and about maximizing the joy and making it always memorable and fun.
I now can say that going outfully dressed is not just the guts of doing it but also the time and meditation of planning ahead how to do it.
is like a journey into a different dimention in a body that is not particularly the one you use in the normal life.
I feel now that when i transform, i become someone else and looks after her survival, that person doesnt want to be vanished but wwants to have her time her relaxation and fun.
dressing up is like a drug, where the more you do it the more you want it, and everytime the dose is higher, fortunatelly is a safe and erotic drug which will never go away,...dont try to stop, ydoesnt matter what you do or what you endure,..you always will need to come back again. otherwise is suffering.
I also learn that this hobbie is not actually required to be shared by others who doesnt dress up, maybe they will have the comperhantion or open mind to let you be happy on what makes you happy, but those people are a handfull among the rest, who doesnt seem to be too sypmathetic at this hobbie and actually create on them worying and sadness thinking is a siockness or a bad obsesion on us,...i personally dont think neither of those, i only think that is a choice and we discover a sense of pleasure doing it , exactly as others like chocolate or like to suntan.
you cant force people to suntan or eat chocolate if they dont want, exactly here you cant force people to keep seeing you normal if you tell them you love panties and hose and 5inch pumps , dressing a miniskirt and wearing but enhancers ,...its actually nonsense to try to ask aproval to beloved ones, it may turn very negative and destructive.
I conclude that the need is absent as well, i dont actually need approval of noone of my family and friends.
therefore is better to keep it secret and personal, is not cheating neither. is freedom.
The other rule i stablished in my routine is to first understand my look, my body, my limits and my age, if i want to have the best experience is better to dress right instead of dress as a clown whore, ...if the goal is to feel the electricity of going for a walk dressed and with your new sexy shoes, there is always a way.
first dont pay atention if you get the attention or not, thats a wall in our head and stops us on persuing the outing in many ocasions,....instead focus on what to wear that will be ok according to the weather, place, people, your age and definitelly would be apporpriate.
i try to see ladies of my age, wearing sexy then i study their combinations and see if i can find those garments in my size.
shoes i love supper high heels but actually is not usual to see ladies of 40 years old wearing 5inchers, but in the night is fine.
so everything depends and you must try to obey those rules.
if the rules are broken most likely you can pass and embarassment or in the best case people will stare making you uncofortable.
the other things is to know yopur body, where is the area you definitelly need some enhancing or curving, i shape my body with foam, hips and but, and i have a pair of tits in foam too, sometimes i put double ass enhancer to give a lift to the but.
my hips must look w proportion to my shoulders, my legs must be wel shaved or with a nice hose,
my stomach must be well wrapped
my buldge must be perfectly flat, and my body must be able to move without pain or disconfort.
the result ios a passable silhuette, once is well dressed what is left is the face and the hair.
once you look perfectly feminine from the neck to the toe, you must practice continuesly the make up style that is suitable for you.
fortunatelly i had a professional lady who is make up stylist to do my face several time in closed doors, she show me and teach me the best look i can get, and how to apply different products, later i got practice and discover new products and found out solutions to all my issues, like hidding the beard shadow, eye circles, eyebrows, put on lashes, do the eye shadow sexy and artistic ...all without looking too much
the effects are important, what makes you eye look bigger or deeper, etc, skin clear or clean, etc
the keypoint is to shave very close and apply the fondation and concealing apropriate in order to cover the beard shadow and all male countours, once that is done you are 80% passing the test.
the next challenge is to wear and find the best wig according to your body , look, neck, face, skin color, face physiology and of course fashion.
the hair color is one and the hair style is another, what i did is to find in magazines people with similar caracteristics as me, such as skin color, face expression, height, race etc, the hair style that looks better and then select the closer stle on wig i can find,
i went last time to the mall, and there are stands of wigs, the ladies selling them are very experienced, and people buy them for other people on times, so that is easy to do, i told the lady is for my sister, who si same age and very similar to my face expression, same height etc, she was actually looking a wig that fits me actually, and io got a very very nice one....after the purchase the lady will never remember sold me that one to me and never will care if it was for me actually. who cares.
so wig is very important, some people say to invest money on it, i say you should go for the one that fits you better, not for the most expensive, they at the end turn bad and you will keep on buying them over and over.
the last thing is the jewelry, i strive for the ones that are a little bulky and big, casue my face may look smaller and will decrease the atention to my malke features.
earrings big and thick, shiny gold etc, my necklace i big chunky also to detour atention to the neck and the skin.
optional, would be hands, put on rings and bracelets, sometimes if i have the time i stick on long nails.
The next step after you are the perfect female, is to know in advance the place where you gona go, sometimes a promenade in the city center of your city is the best place, you can walk in circles over the blocks or zig zag etc, until your feet ask you to stop.
if you need to go pee, go to the girls room and sit, pee toward the wall of the bowl, do not splash into the water directly or it will hear very strange.
going to the toilet shouldnt be a problem, no one gives a dam
the other options you have are sites, public areas, malls, stores, etc, i even had promenades at the airports, those are the best.
The keys of being able to go out are:
1. dress well, and practice your makeup skills.
2. perfect your body shape, smooth proportion and natural.
3. select your outing place, by knowing the parking area, exit area emergency routes if you run into your boss, what to do, safe areas and safe return if you twist an ankle, safe atmosphere, avoid young ladies who are competitng against other ladies, such as going to nostrom or sephora, or bebe, dont do that, those ladies are the only creature that can id you in one second, i prefer places where the population is very busy minding their own biz, and not looking to others.
4 do nto speak, i rather dont say athing when im out, try not to caugh neither, you may give your self away as well , .avoid places with interaction,...if someone asks you a quastion you always can answer with a face or a mimic, or pointing afinger if they need driection, try never to speak so you dont loose your confidence.
the goal is to pass and make other believe you are a real girl, so the eyes will be better put on anything but the evaluation or the process to dicsver who are you really.
i seldom have people staring at my ass rather trying to discover me. thats good.
the last thing is of great experience is to control the time, dressing undressing and having fun, obey the plan do not change the plans at the end
and have a nice place where you can have your gear and dress and undress without hassle, car, ministorage, etc. i choose a ministorage as my gear is pretty big and i seldom like to go out dressed into my car, rather than doing all the dressing inside the car.
my house is impossible to take the risk.
going out is easy, the problem i face now is that i cant find time to go out.
and places i wish if i can try other new ones but takes time to comute there,
i already went out in many cities aand countries, i went out to the city centers, night clubs, hotels, airports, big stores, malls, parking lots, parks, corporate offices, restaurants, went even on the metro.
i may need to think about going to concerts, ride a motorcycle, take a cruise, take an airplane, atend a dance i dont know what more we can do being dressed.
the thing is that the first outing is going to be too inocent, few steps out and you will feel amazing like if you achived something really big, next time your outing gets longer and with higher challenges.
many outings will be amazing, few will be soso, but you definitelly will get outing not cool at all, we are sensible people and we may be victim of a situation that may embarass us, thats normal, we will forget and keep on going.
next i will start pasting experiences.
what do you think about this? will it help you? can you share your achievments from now on if you applied this tips, ask me questions as well i will definitelly help you on brainstorming to find a solution.
