First off, welcome to Susan's!
Secondly, with so many different gender identities represented and supported here, I'm afraid I can't help a whole lot with your question. I can't see what gender you are representing as or which gender you wish to represent as in your post. Could you help a sister out?
For example, if you wish to look more masculine because you are genetically female and wanting to present as male, you'll get one answer, and if you are genetically male wanting to present as female you will get another.
Hope you find what you are looking for here... there are so many wonderful, supportive people here that I think I can safely say whatever your gender, orientation, color, or bubble gum flavor preference you'll meet with lots of support.
