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[kingkane]

Hi this is more a question than an introduction. I am 27 and gay. I generally would not find genetic women at all sexually interesting (no offence ladies), however lately I have begun looking a lot of t-girls and things and have found myself feeling an attraction. I am not sure what this makes me now. Not coming on here to poke fun, or to troll, this is a genuine question. Any help, advice whatever I'd appreciate it.

[Ms. OBrien CVT]

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[kingkane]

Will do, thanks 

[Jessica Merriman]

Hi baby! I want to welcome you here and assure you this is the place for questions such as yours. I am not offended and I do not think anyone else will as it seems like you are questioning your sexuality. That is OK here. I am not qualified to answer or I would. Someone will respond though, give them time. I suppose I am lucky in one sense, I knew from age 7 what I really was and never had to question it. I am so glad I was not confused over it. I really don't think that you should concern yourself with a label though. You should just live your life as you see fit and not think of how the outside world views you. People should not intrude on your happiness or beliefs. Something about your question led me to believe you don't know what to tell people when they ask about it. Forget them and live every day the way YOU want to and don't try to justify yourself to people who will never understand whatever answer you give them. Here is a BIG HUG to get you started!! 

[kingkane]

I wouldn't say I ever questioned my sexuality, though I probably did ignore it as growing up in a rural community (pre-internet) I never assumed boys were an option. I suppose where I am now in my late 20's after several (some fulfilling) sexual encounters (very few relationships), I feel as if the wind has gone out of my sail. As I say been looking at lot's of things with t-girls lately and it seems to have reignited my passion somewhat, though I'm probably at my lowest ever in terms of sexuality activity. Perhaps, that is down to my dealing mostly with dim gay men (not that I'm Einstein or anything, but I like good spelling and don't get Gaga).

[Claire (formerly Magdalena)]

Hi, Kane!

Welcome. I'm not sure your particular interests "make you" anything. No, I'm not trying to be difficult. It's just that we each have our own preferences, most of us don't fit neatly into categories. You like what you like, there is no shame in that. On the other hand, "t-girl" and all the other porn names reduce us to sexual objects, fetishes. We are still people, don't forget to respect us as such.

Feel free to wander the grounds, get to know people. It's okay to keep asking questions. We're really very friendly. 

-maggie

[kingkane]

Yes, all very friendly-and who says forum boards are dead 

[Jessica Merriman]

Susan's is not a board forum baby, we are family!! You have been adopted!! 

[kingkane]

Awh 

Not liking math questions though, I'm the kind of person who has to take their shoes off to count to 20. 

Otherwise, you're all lovely and thanks 

[KelsieJ]

Our community is made up of everyone from admirers to etc, etc. I'm sure you'll be fine here - they just adopted me too Welcome!

[Devlyn]

Hi Kingkane, welcome to Susan's Place! I'm from Boston. Get busy posting and I'll see you around the site, hugs, Devlyn

[Jamie D]

Kingkane, when you figure out the biochemical secret of attraction, bottle it and become a gazillionaire!