Problems are more often than not self created. What's really sad is when these self created problems get thrown back at other people.
I can even give an example. Take all the trans people that focus their attention on the general public. They say such things as the world hates them, they say that it is not safe, that trans people are seriously in danger........., that they need rights.
There have been countless transsexual women that have gone through transition. Newsflash they did it!!! They even survived. They became women in the eyes of the world.
I often find it ironic that the so called community often laments about these women and how they leave the community and are not seen again. They often pose the question why don't they give back to the community.
Well they did give to the community! They transitioned and the world saw them transition to a woman. They blazed the trail for transition.
Sadly a lot of people cant even walk down a blazed trail.