Head and crown-circumference?

[LittleV]

I hear you about loss of control meaning you focus on and fret over the small things.

It seems likely that the cis female measurements were also without taking hair into account (or they should be, at any rate!). Also, the hair may work in your favor - I noticed the strangest thing, that I was super paranoid about being too tall, but wearing higher heels made people think I was SHORTER. They constantly misjudged the heel height and figured 5" heels (really about 3"!) meant I was 5" shorter than I looked (or about 2" shorter than I really was). In other words, your best bet might be to go with kinda big hair and people will assume that it's a lot of big hair on a smaller head. People just do not look that closely most of the time, so if you give them an easy explanation for the apparently larger head (lots of hair), they'll take that and ignore the whole issue.

Makes a lot of sense... I kind of used to get away with big hair better than with straightened. My hair is a naturally wavy/curly so there a lot of volume.
I just never could get it long enough for it to get it's "weight", instead it's very light, fluffy and messy in general.