Jill,
There are some basic rules when it comes to giving an opinion about facial surgery, both for before and afters. Photos should be from straight in front, left and right profile and eventually left and right oblique (45°) all with hair tied back.
They should also be taken with good light and from far enough away, 3 to 4 yards, to minimize any distorsion of facial features.
That's a fairly round about way of saying that I wouldn't dare give an opinion/suggestion on what might be a good idea for you based on your avatar photo.
However, what is interesting to note is that all the procedures proposed are standard cosmetic surgery procedures so all you can reasonably hope is that they will have a rejuvenating effect. Apart from that, feminisation will be almost certainly be pretty minimal
Also, for your information, when I did my forehead surgery, at my own request (I didn't want any scars below my hairline) , a coronal incision was used. Because of this, the browlift effect was pretty minimal. Afterwards I decided I wanted more of a browlift and looked at the option of doing an endoscopic browlift. I was advised by a very well respected cosmetic surgeon that the effects were generally little better than those obtained with botox injections and that the best way to proceed was by doing an incision, eventually just behind the hairline, and really raising the muscles. This is what I ended out doing.
Hugs
Donna