What was the first thing you changed?

[RavenMoon]

Went off the deep end for two years more PTSD related to my Vietnam War experiences, sometimes the nicest people's lives turn to sh*t for no apparent reasons. Nuff said bout that!

Yes indeed! Hope you are feeling better now.

[Autumn]

I decided to let my hair grow out. It was already getting pretty long for a guy, at least the top was. I usually trimmed the sides, but now I don't plan on cutting it until it's a good length to get it styled.

[Shantel]

Yes indeed! Hope you are feeling better now.

Oh yeah, that was several years ago, thanks!

[FalseHybridPrincess]

Me too first thing was the hair,,,

then some make up and feminine jewelry...

[noleen111]

The first things I did when I started hrt

I started growing my hair long.. Went for about a year without cutting it.. It grew half way down my back. Now I trim my hair.. And keep it just below my shoulder blades.

I also got my second holes pierced in my ears

I already shaved my legs before hrt, but the start of hrt meant I started keeping them shaved. The same with my arm pits. I did laser to my chest and face prior to hrt.

And also started wearing ladies underwear all the time.

[SierraK]

My hair was already long, and even though I'm still figuring me out, I would say the first thing was shaving my beard off. Hadn't done that in 4+ years and I cried (happy tears) when I saw myself.

[LordKAT]

The first evident thing was my name. Clothes I never changed, acting like me I never changed no matter how much strife it caused.

[laure_natasha]

The first thing for me was getting my ears pierced. After that removing all body hair, shaping brows and wearing nail polish. Female fit clothes slowly replacing my regular wardrobe.

Further steps require more thought since they will start to affect my relationship. I'd love to grow my hair out but probably need a transplant Beard removal and HRT would be next on my list, maybe FFS.

Still a long way to go!

[Cindy]

My mind after that it was obvious.

[Oriah]

nailpolish a skirt, and a cute top.  my hair was long already