Quote from: Amy The Bookworm on January 17, 2014, 01:28:41 PM
...Any advice how to cope in the meantime?
Pray for courage and patience. (If, like me, you're not sure about God, pray to your inner strength. It works just as well).
Figure out what things you like doing. Things that help you feel true to yourself. They may be related to gender, or may be unrelated. For me it would be reading, writing, taking walks, watching romantic movies, drinking herb tea, talking to friends, etc.
Once you have it figured out, do those things as often as you can. Think of them as gifts to yourself.
Quote from: Amy The Bookworm on January 17, 2014, 01:28:41 PM
I'm unable to transition due to my family's current situation and location in the country (rural Kansas, United States).
Can you try to educate people about transgender? Sometimes people surprise you. Some people are just hating bigots. But a lot of people are just uninformed. When they learn some facts, many people have great ability for compassion.
Most people don't know that:
* Transgender people can't help who they are, that brain research shows our brains are actually wired to be this way.
* No medical, psychological, or religious intervention has ever shown itself to make this go away,
* Living as a different gender is incredibly stressful, whether you're trans or not. It's not surprising that depression, anxiety, and suicide is so common among us.
* Transition is surprisingly effective at getting rid of these issues.
If you're feeling heroic, might be worth exploring trying to spread this information around. Sort of a "did you know that..." or even a do-good thing. "I'm collecting to help transgender people. They have a hard time of it." Not everyone has it in them. If you don't, it's fine just to bide your time.
I don't mean to push you into something you're not comfortable with, but I wanted to make sure you'd thought of all possibilities.