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I reunited with my parents

Started by Alexis, December 21, 2013, 07:58:14 PM

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Alexis

I reunited with my parents and looks like we are going to work things out.I came out in 1998 to them and they disowned me on the spot.Told me to get out of their house and not to come back.That hurt me very bad and this was 15 years ago and I was 19 at the time.They remember me as the son,did call me Alexis and we hugged.My parents and I credit my sister Liz for it,Liz told them I am finally happy living as a woman.It was 2 weeks ago they had the change of heart and recieved a phone call from them.They said I am a very beautiful woman now.My parents and I have an appointment with a therapist on Monday and my sister will be there too.My parents felt very guilty disowning me and it will take time,one step a time.I am going to sleep well at night now and have to make up for lost time also.Good thing is I will forgive them sometime when it comes time.The therapist we are seeing deals with transgendered issues and was highly recomended by a good friend of mine.
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Rachel

HRT  5-28-2013
FT   11-13-2015
FFS   9-16-2016 -Spiegel
GCS 11-15-2016 - McGinn
Hair Grafts 3-20-2017 - Cooley
Voice therapy start 3-2017 - Reene Blaker
Labiaplasty 5-15-2017 - McGinn
BA 7-12-2017 - McGinn
Hair grafts 9-25-2017 Dr.Cooley
Sataloff Cricothyroid subluxation and trachea shave12-11-2017
Dr. McGinn labiaplasty, hood repair, scar removal, graph repair and bottom of  vagina finished. urethra repositioned. 4-4-2018
Dr. Sataloff Glottoplasty 5-14-2018
Dr. McGinn vaginal in office procedure 10-22-2018
Dr. McGinn vaginal revision 2 4-3-2019 Bottom of vagina closed off, fat injected into the labia and urethra repositioned.
Dr. Thomas in 2020 FEMLAR
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Alexis

My parents did a lot of thinking get advice.They are religous and their pastor led them to the right way.Pastor said my parents were judging me in a very bad way and they took his advice.Their pastor has a daughter that is a post op transsexual,it was her also that made them have a heart of change.It was a song too and it made my parents tear up a little and I am not giving up hope for them   
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Gina Taylor

Congratulations Alexis. It's definitely time to celebrate. I'd really give your sister a lot of credit for this. Being disowned for 15 years is a lot of time a part from each other, and I'm sure that gap will be quickly closed up by the love that our parents will have for you. A friend was telling me the other day that sometimes you have to break the ties bewteen you , but you can never sever the love.  :)
Gina Marie Taylor  8)
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bethany

Thats awesome Alexis!!! And at the perfect time of year Merry Christmas to you and your family.
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Alexis

This was our early Christmas present and hopefully we can bury the hatchet finally.I told told my parents they have a 12 year old grand daughter and 10 year grandson,my parents met them.My my girlfriend Jenna,the mother of my kids too.
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Cindy

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svaso

This made me cry...I am so happy for you.
Stacy
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Alexis

Great thing is my family is back together.My sister,parents and I back together as a family.My parents and I plan on watching Transtasia on Monday night,I have it on dvd.My sister already saw it with me,said it was heartbreaking hearing 4 of the contestant's stories.
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Ltl89

I'm really glad your parents did the right thing and reached out to you.  That's great!  I'm hoping things continue to go well.  :)
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Alexis

First therapy session was today,my parents are starting to understand I never felt comfortable as a boy.I am glad this is happening now.Overall it went great and our family is back together
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Anna++

Hooray!  I'm so happy to hear this, and it gives hope to the rest of us that have had poor reactions from family.  Thank you for sharing :)
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Shantel

Alexis,
     What a heartwarming story, I am so happy for you and your family, it's as it should be for everyone without the long hyphen. God bless you dear!
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Rachel

I am truly moved. It is so wonderful to here of such a reunion story.
HRT  5-28-2013
FT   11-13-2015
FFS   9-16-2016 -Spiegel
GCS 11-15-2016 - McGinn
Hair Grafts 3-20-2017 - Cooley
Voice therapy start 3-2017 - Reene Blaker
Labiaplasty 5-15-2017 - McGinn
BA 7-12-2017 - McGinn
Hair grafts 9-25-2017 Dr.Cooley
Sataloff Cricothyroid subluxation and trachea shave12-11-2017
Dr. McGinn labiaplasty, hood repair, scar removal, graph repair and bottom of  vagina finished. urethra repositioned. 4-4-2018
Dr. Sataloff Glottoplasty 5-14-2018
Dr. McGinn vaginal in office procedure 10-22-2018
Dr. McGinn vaginal revision 2 4-3-2019 Bottom of vagina closed off, fat injected into the labia and urethra repositioned.
Dr. Thomas in 2020 FEMLAR
  • skype:Rachel?call
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Alexis

Went over to my parent's place and we watched Transtasia together.My mom teared up a little bit and I did hug her.It was the same with my dad too.Great thing is I did get to meet their pastor and his daughter that is a post op mtf transsexual.I met a new friend in life,they came over and watched Transtasia with us also.
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Constance

This is just awesome! Congratulations, Alexis!