You need or want a room mate? I like Cali. I miss the weather. TN laws regarding transition suck. They will not change the gender on a birth certificate, the only option is to get a passport to override them.
Another problem is...if anyone has seen me in boy mode...they insist on calling me him, and he, and my boy name instead of she, her and my girl name. When I'm obviously a girl. I dont really have any nervousness about it, but everyone else has a problem with recognizing me as female if they have ever met the guy part of me, and he is hardly ever around. The real trick is next wednesday, my wife and I are supposed to start going back to church and I already told her and meant it, that I was never coming out of girl mode again, i told her before we got married. And I've not been at church in girl mode yet, haven't been to church with her in months, even though everyone knows I was trying to transition, no one has met the real me. So i'm kinda afraid they'll try to cast out my "gay demon" or something, but whatever. I just wish i would never have went in boy mode, or even let her meet the guy part of me.