Alrighty then where shall I start... Let me get a bit of history out of the way. My husband has been on T for about 3 years now. September 11, 2017 he finally had his top surgery
So 1 1/2 months ago. Of course all bandages are removed and stitches have dissolved. He has had a couple of "spit stitches" that we trimmed a bit and they just fell into place and the skin has grown and covered. He has since returned to work (on October 6th; forklift operator). I told him that I think it would be best that he compresses while at work to avoid stretching the incision site and to prevent swelling and pain but he does not want to because "I will sweat and I don't want it to get gross and infected and its very tight and uncomfortable". So with that, he compresses while he sleeps. We have been using Bio Oil, I have heard mixed reviews everywhere I look. Some say its wonderful and reduces scar appearance nicely and some say it does absolutely nothing so I guess it just depends on the person. Can't hurt to continue using it if its not causing any skin issues.
I read around and do my homework as much as I can, but I still feel like I need opinions on his specific case. His MAIN concern is that he feels as though not enough was removed to give him the flat look he wants. I have told him time and time again that he is still healing and it will take time. He just got cut open and stuff taken out for goodness sake! I also remind him that he will need to begin to workout as he is not in shape (which he agrees with). Building muscle in that area will give him the pecs he is looking for. But sometimes, I look at his chest and wonder the same thing... "did the surgeon really not take enough out? Will this really smooth out over time?"
He also has some hard places around the incision site, in which case I told him to massage the area and perhaps it could break up what is there. As of the last week, he has been telling me his nipples are becoming painful and he is just sore all in that area. When I read similar experiences, they are told to wait it out at least 6 months to one year (when he is fully healed) to have revisions as things may fall into place over time. I also see that he needs to workout (clearly within reasonable limits) to build the muscle but he is VERY dead set on revisions. With all that said I will now post pictures. Please, don't hold back, I want honest opinions and suggestions.
This picture is 1 week and 5 days post op.
This picture is one month post op.
The next three pictures are from right now. I tried to get up close as much as I could for detail.