Hi guys. I am a cis-female Mum of a 17 yo FTM. He is still early in the process and on track to getting HRT. YAY!
I promise not to gunk up your thread with a bunch of posts from me. I KNOW and respect that this is YOUR thread. But I had to say a few things to you.
First may I say, you guys are amazing. So funny, and compassionate with each other. And you are all badass. You look amazing.
Second, you have helped me more than you can ever know. I was terrified about my son taking this step, because my mother had a radical double mastectomy 15 years ago and she looked a hot mess. It was awful. I was so scared for my boy. Then I read every post in this thread, over the course of 3 days, and I feel so so much better. The two surgerys are completely different things. I knew that in my head, but now I know it in my heart also. Thank you.
The third is a funny. Buy about page 10 I had completely forgotten you were all misgendered at birth. You were just guys to me. Guys having plastic surgery, but just guys. Then I hit a post near the end by one of you that had a hysterectomy at the same time as top surgery. My brain went "Wait, what? Why is a guy having a hysterectomy?" then of course the "Duh!" moment. This was with seeing all of your pics, even some before pics. So if you worry if you pass, don't. Not a single one of you made my brain think "female".
Thanks,
Majik
PS I will now leave the thread to you guys. But I bookmarked so I could share it with my son when it is time.