Sex, seriously, who really needs it?

[Newgirl Dani]

Right now I believe the more important question is why you would consider others who do not do as you, to be unreasonable?   Dani

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I wouldn't take the OP too seriously, I hear she hates vegetables too.

Hey marsh monster,

Yeah, understood, but............I think we as a people have almost completely lost the will/inclination/wanting to take the time/ability to risk others wrath etc., etc., in order to hold others accountable.  This is a component of our nation that does not need to completely disappear or be neglected, to result in huge loss of prior gains.

Too serious for the situation?  To never redirect only means the above truly takes place.   Dani

[awilliams1701]

I don't miss the act itself that much in spite of the fact its been 13ish years. I do miss the bond afterwords. You feel close to that person and there is no way to describe the feeling. Its just incredibly wonderful and I miss that more than anything. I'm hoping that if I'm still a lesbian after years of HRT that I'll still be able to experience that level of intimacy.

[marsh monster]

Hey marsh monster,

Yeah, understood, but............I think we as a people have almost completely lost the will/inclination/wanting to take the time/ability to risk others wrath etc., etc., in order to hold others accountable.  This is a component of our nation that does not need to completely disappear or be neglected, to result in huge loss of prior gains.

Too serious for the situation?  To never redirect only means the above truly takes place.   Dani

Technically, I am the OP, just with another account. I don't care for sex, but was curious about how important it was to others, trying to understand its significance to them. I just did it in an odd way as I sometimes do things. Plus I did have the smiley with its tongue sticking out the side, so that oughta count for something. 

[marsh monster]

And I do understand the need for intimacy outside of sex. That is something I miss, but its hard to get that without someone wanting the other.

[herekitten]

With the right person its fun. When you are in love with the right person and they are in love with you -- it is YES YES YES and ohmygoodnessistheearthtremblingandtheskiesparting! YES!.

Grace -- Do tell please.  This Canoodling -- how is done and how?  enlighten me. I feel deprived.

[herekitten]

Grace - I looked up canoodling. I've been canoodling all along and never knew it.

[marsh monster]

Isn't that catching catfish barehanded from a canoe?

[Sammy]

Isn't that catching catfish barehanded from a canoe?

No noodles are involved?

[Newgirl Dani]

Got it, never quite knew what the tongue icon was.......now I'm just a little bit smarter (just a little), and still really, really, really responsible though.

Uh Oh, just looked up.  Catfish, canoes, and noodles, boy how things change fast.

[valkiacrimson]

I've never really had a relationship for very long. Even though I'm primarily attracted to females, women usually aren't attracted to me. Not because of looks, but because I'm emotionally feminine, so they usually only see me as a friend. The girls who do want to be with still kinda want me to be a "man" in the relationship, and that's hard for me

As it is now, I'm pre everything, and even though I'm lonely and long for companionship and love I don't feel like I can even persue that.

I want sex, love and companionship, but I just don't think there is anything there for me, at least any time soon...

[Kimberley Beauregard]

I can't imagine an intimate relationship without sex or sexual desire.

[pretty pauline]

Kissing, cuddling, caressing, canoodling? Yes please! Actual intercourse? meh, not so much... 
But for all those that do enjoy it, more power to you!!!

Very true, I love the kissing, cuddling and foreplay, the actual intercourse is overrated, but being married to a hot blooded male (my husband) it's more important to him, I could live without it, but he can't, we both have different needs, but it's nice to satisfy him in that way, the way only a woman can, just to see that big smile on his face when intercourse is completed.

[Amaryllis]

well, I'm a virgin, and I'd like to have sex at some point or another, but definitely, at some point in my life once I fully transition, or run into that special someone, who doesn't mind me being pre-op.

[Zoetrope]

LOL, oh my goodness, I should stay out of this thread.

I want it.
I desire it.
I need it.

Being pre-op does not stop me :~]

[noleen111]

I do

I love it and I cant get enough sex..

Once you experience a female orgasm wow, you just want that feeling again