Dating with in the Trans community

[Lana P]

Since being trans I have dated briefly a post-op transwomen. I would also be open to dating a transman. I am more into men then I am into women. Also there was a story going around the net of a trans teen couple one m2f the other f2m. They were so cute together.

Would you date someone that was also trans? Have you dated someone who was trans. And what do you think of trans people dating?

Lets discuss

[mrs izzy]

Yes dated and married.

I think that the community in whole is more fixed on the CIS but is missing out on happiness that can be found with in.

Anyway, i am so happy with life.

Isabell

[FalseHybridPrincess]

I wouldnt mind dating a tran girl 

Id like it if we were the same age 

We could do many things together and we could understand each other 

But that seems kinda difficult...

[Brooke777]

I have dated two FtMs, and 5 MtFs (three were post op), and one gender fluid person. I find it comforting dating another trans person. They can actually understand how I feel, which cis people can't.

[JRD]

I think its fine for trans people to date each other. I wouldn't, but then I don't date at all.

[big kim]

I've dated 4 M2F but 1 of them really had problems,the last I heard she was sectioned after getting in a bar brawl with some drunks and then trying to take out the cops!I can manage really good without someone like that

[LJP]

I would be comfortable with a cis or transgendered woman. I'm just not into guys.

[Ms Grace]

Recently saw a really gorgeous trans woman at my endo's waiting room. Would definitely consider dating her if she was interested and I was game enough to ask! Before I saw her I'd never even considered the possibility so it surprised me to find myself considering going out with her.

[Adam (birkin)]

I love someone who is also trans (MTF). I had wondered, previously, if it would be an issue at all. But it really isn't any different from dating a cisgender woman, for the most part. Trans stuff kind of is double edged. It has the potential to start fights that wouldn't happen otherwise, but we also understand that part of each other's lives too.

Even if I liked guys though, I could never date a trans man, ever. It would bring all the issues too close to home and...just, never. I'd be with a cis guy if I was to be with a guy at all.

[Lana P]

amber1964 Iv met many cis people with tons of crazy. So if you think trans people are a tad nutty so are cis people LOL. Nobody is perfect lets just make that clear.

[Brooke777]

amber1964 Iv met many cis people with tons of crazy. So if you think trans people are a tad nutty so are cis people LOL. Nobody is perfect lets just make that clear.

Oh, I totally agree with this! The one ciswoman I have dated this year was nuts!

[big kim]

I've met very few F2M but would consider dating.

[Jessica Merriman]

I would date almost anyone who didn't flee in terror! 

[Heather]

I wouldn't mind being in a relationship with another trans person. Gender isn't important to me as much as how much I love spending time with that person. And it would be nice to have someone who knows what your going through.

[peky]

I like normal cis sexual manly big teddy bear kinds of men.

Normal? Our FTM brothers not "normal?"

One screwed up person with issues in a relationship is more than enough

Everybody has "issues," cis or trans makes no difference

Your post is borderline offensive dear!

[kelly_aus]

amber1964 Iv met many cis people with tons of crazy. So if you think trans people are a tad nutty so are cis people LOL. Nobody is perfect lets just make that clear.

Heck, I've met cis women that make me look sane..

Crazy seems to come in 'flavours', some flavours I like, some I don't..

[amber1964]

Lana P

Let me be clear.

Some kinds of craziness and issues are fine for me. But I dont want to deal with the kind of issues another trans person has. Got enough of that kind of crazy. Thought a trans woman would get that. Not worth the chance to me, so much easier to find a normal guy or at least a guy without gender issues.

PS: Not necessary to speak down to me. Just communicate.

[Hikari]

I would I suppose, I like women, and I wouldn't limit that to cisgender ones. I could certainly see where dating someone working thru their own gender issues could be a challenge then again, that person would have a much greater understanding of my own problems. I never have dated someone trans, but I think it almost could be refreshing to have someone that understands, but it wouldn't be something I would actively seek, in any more of a capacity than someone cisgendered.

[Jessica Merriman]

All in all, I just want someone to accept me, love me and not oppose SRS because they like my birth defect. OK, now officially depressed because I will never find this combination ever. 

[Brooke777]

OK, now officially depressed because I will never find this combination ever. 

Come now, don't think like that. There are plenty of people who would date you for you, not your genitalia. Think positively!