Hello i am new and confused about my gender

[tome8787]

Hello i am male but want to be female, i have told nobody and i thought this is where i can get advice, in where to start and how this will affect my whole life.

[Jessica Merriman]

A big warm welcome to you! You have definitely found the right place for information and support. There are subjects of every kind here and provided by those with first hand experience and all levels of transition. There are people here to answer questions of all kinds, listen to you and provide a shoulder to cry on if you need it. Relax and dig right in and not worry about a thing. We do not judge or discriminate against anyone here. This is a safe place where you can discover yourself and make new friends from all over the world. Here is a BIG HUG ( ) to get you started off right.

[tome8787]

Thank you for the welcome it rely helps

[MugwortPsychonaut]

Try taking small steps, one at a time, in the direction you want to go. Each step of the way, stop, and see how you feel.

[Cindy]

Welcome tome

to Susans! We have people come to visit us from all over the world, expressing different points of view, and you are likely to find someone to help you along your way Here are some important links and things to ponder as you begin your journey here.

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Yep you have found the right place come on in and join the party!

Cindy

[Rachel]

Welcome, hugs.

I recommend seeing a gender therapist to help you sort out what you want to do and advise on some places to socialize and get additional resources.