I haven't had DBT (
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dialectical_behavior_therapy for those that aren't familiar with it) but that doesn't mean at some point I won't. My therapist and my naturopathic both thought this would be a good fit for me in working through some of the emotions related to gender dysphoria. You probably know that a lot of DBT is based on Eastern philosophies such as Buddhism and Taoism. In my case, it was my exploration of these ancient wisdoms that got me to a place where I was no longer as obsessed with gender as I had been. The emphasis was on mindfulness and the importance of being in the present moment without clinging to thoughts that would prevent me from just enjoying now. I lose my way from time to time but I always seem to return to these ideas and find comfort.
One of the primary skills that DBT is designed to help you cultivate is called "Radical Acceptance" which is (using Wikipedia's concise and accurate description) "Let go of fighting reality. Accept your situation for what it is." I came to my own "Radical Acceptance" on my own, if I had gone through DBT earlier it might have helped me get there sooner.
Reality can sometimes be very very hard and it is so tempting to try to escape it but that is not ultimately productive. Here is my favorite Chapter in the Tao. It's not my favorite translation but it is close enough and I think fits in nicely with what DBT is all about (pretty much all of the Tao fits in I guess, but this is my favorite.)
Chapter 76
While alive, the body is soft and pliant
When dead, it is hard and rigid
All living things, grass and trees,
While alive, are soft and supple
When dead, become dry and brittle
Thus that which is hard and stiff
is the follower of death
That which is soft and yielding
is the follower of life
Therefore, an inflexible army will not win
A strong tree will be cut down
The big and forceful occupy a lowly position
While the soft and pliant occupy a higher place