Pre-T body hair.

[YBtheOutlaw]

btw from your stories i get that girls are almost forced by the society to shave, which is not something i'm familiar with. things are different here. probably we asians generally have more body hair than westerners, so it is not weird for females to be hairy. actually majority of schoolgoers do not shave and even when you are older many stay unshaven. male or female, its your body and your hair, so why should anyone worry whether you shave it or not? the world really needs to grow up.

[Gene]

I'm not gonna argue but I really wasn't trying to be disrespectful. But You have your oppinion and I have mine. That's ok though. I already know I offend people. And no I wouldn't because black people use it freely anyways so I could care less if a caucasion called me the N word because I don't take that stuff to heart. And I didn't say I use the word gay to describe something stupid people around me do, Why take everything to heart, Not everything is meant to be rude. Know do I think some things should not be said yes.

Allow me to quote your own words: "Normally when me and my friends say somethings gay we mean stupid not in a offensive way to homosexuals." You said directly that YOU and your friends use that word, not just that they use it. You do realize what you typed is still up for everyone to read what actually transpired, right? It's pretty hard to backpedal and try to say you didn't mean something when it's still showing IN PRINT that you said it. Nice try though. Points for effort.

[Brandon]

Allow me to quote your own words: "Normally when me and my friends say somethings gay we mean stupid not in a offensive way to homosexuals." You said directly that YOU and your friends use that word, not just that they use it. You do realize what you typed is still up for everyone to read what actually transpired, right? It's pretty hard to backpedal and try to say you didn't mean something when it's still showing IN PRINT that you said it. Nice try though. Points for effort.

I Really don't use the word gay, Yes I have used it but rarely do I use it, And why are you again still going on about it. Stop taking everything to heart. I already said sorry if I offended you. And I thought the definition of gay meant happy.

[Brandon]

Like I said, Homosexuals use it themselves. That's exactly like me getting mad because a caucasion called me the N word, I sound dumb when I'm walking up to my friends saying what my blank, Of course a caucasion would use it and not see it as a problem because as an African American the meaning has been twisted and we use it freely just like the word gay has been tosed around. Case in point how am gonna tell a caucasion not to use it when I use freely and even refer to them as it. I can't get mad at that.... Just an example I don't do that.

[Gene]

I Really don't use the word gay, Yes I have used it but rarely do I use it, And why are you again still going on about it. Stop taking everything to heart. I already said sorry if I offended you. And I thought the definition of gay meant happy.

Yeah, see, I just re-read what you wrote and at no point did you apologize. You instead changed your story. First it was "my homosexual friends use it", then "I don't use it they do", then "I hardly use it and I said I was sorry". My goodness, you are still aware that we can go back and read what you wrote, right? It's still there (although you did delete that one comment in an attempt to cover yourself in an almost valiant effort, yet sadly it lives on in the quote from my post so it can still be read). You said some crappy things, and instead of acting like it's everyone else's problem, maybe it's time you sit back and think WHY it is you offend so many people. Maybe if you, oh I don't know, stopped saying offensive stuff you wouldn't have this problem. By the way, editing your last comment to try and make it seem like you meant "gay" as in happy is by far the saddest attempt to backtrack I've seen yet. Again, you are aware we can still read what you wrote and that what you wrote is contradictory to what you're trying to push now, right?

[Gene]

Like I said, Homosexuals use it themselves. That's exactly like me getting mad because a caucasion called me the N word, I sound dumb when I'm walking up to my friends saying what my blank, Of course a caucasion would use it and not see it as a problem because as an African American the meaning has been twisted and we use it freely just like the word gay has been tosed around. Case in point how am gonna tell a caucasion not to use it when I use freely and even refer to them as it. I can't get mad at that.... Just an example I don't do that.

Your terrible excuses continue their downward spiral. I don't buy it. Time to grow up and own up, dude.

[Brandon]

Yeah, see, I just re-read what you wrote and at no point did you apologize. You instead changed your story. First it was "my homosexual friends use it", then "I don't use it they do", then "I hardly use it and I said I was sorry". My goodness, you are still aware that we can go back and read what you wrote, right? It's still there (although you did delete that one comment in an attempt to cover yourself in an almost valiant effort, yet sadly it lives on in the quote from my post so it can still be read). You said some crappy things, and instead of acting like it's everyone else's problem, maybe it's time you sit back and think WHY it is you offend so many people. Maybe if you, oh I don't know, stopped saying offensive stuff you wouldn't have this problem. By the way, editing your last comment to try and make it seem like you meant "gay" as in happy is by far the saddest attempt to backtrack I've seen yet. Again, you are aware we can still read what you wrote and that what you wrote is contradictory to what you're trying to push now, right?

Wrong I deleted it because I didn't want everyone else to get offended and yes that is the real meaning.

[Brandon]

Your terrible excuses continue their downward spiral. I don't buy it. Time to grow up and own up, dude.

No your just not listening to what I'm saying. If you actually read what said you would see it made since.

[Brandon]

Again how are you gonna tell someone not to use a word because its offensive to your own kind but you can use it freely. Exactly what I said about the race thing. Again how dumb would I be to say that a white person couldn't use the N word but I can freely use it and use to refer to them. Of course that person is gonna use it. That's why as I already stated I don't get offended anymore.

[Brandon]

Or even a better example some of my female friends use the B word and even call themselves that, But when a dude calls them the B word there ready to fight, How can you call your own self that but let someones else say it and get mad makes no since. Take how you want but I can be very blunt I do not sugar coat that's just me, Would I ever intentionally hurt someone no or offend me no, But alot of you guys misunderstand me and the first thing you do is look at my rep and say oh he must be really disrespectful or amd Ass at that, But you forget everypne was raised a certain way and my background is not the same as yours, i was taught different things some good some bad oh well.

[Gene]

Again how are you gonna tell someone not to use a word because its offensive to your own kind but you can use it freely. Exactly what I said about the race thing. Again how dumb would I be to say that a white person couldn't use the N word but I can freely use it and use to refer to them. Of course that person is gonna use it. That's why as I already stated I don't get offended anymore.

See, you would have a point if I did in fact use the word "gay" to describe things I thought were stupid. But I haven't and I don't. Your point is moot and weak at best. It is the common trait of those who are wrong but do not want to admit it to blindly grasp at straws. I don't use the word "gay" to call things dumb and I tell people I hear doing it that that's not okay, just like with the N word and B word, and whatever other word is out there to disparage a group of people. Good try though-well, no, it wasn't a good try. It was abysmal.

[Gene]

Or even a better example some of my female friends use the B word and even call themselves that, But when a dude calls them the B word there ready to fight, How can you call your own self that but let someones else say it and get mad makes no since. Take how you want but I can be very blunt I do not sugar coat that's just me, Would I ever intentionally hurt someone no or offend me no, But alot of you guys misunderstand me and the first thing you do is look at my rep and say oh he must be really disrespectful or amd Ass at that, But you forget everypne was raised a certain way and my background is not the same as yours, i was taught different things some good some bad oh well.

I didn't look at your rep: I looked at your posts and behavior. I let people's actions speak for them, not some ranking system on a website. Stop playing the victim; it's just sad and transparent. Anyway, I'm done trying to reason with you. You lie and back pedal, piling contradiction on top of contradiction in a vain attempt to be the one in the right when you are clearly wrong for disparaging a group of people because you couldn't be bothered to come up with a better synonym for something you find "stupid". You have no points so you invent them, thrust words into people's mouths, act like you already apologized when you didn't, and you play like everyone else has a problem instead of you. Nurture is no excuse for poor manners and blatant disrespect under the guise of "not sugar coating things". I'm not interested in continuing this pointless discussion until you've done some maturing. Goodbye, young'un.

[Brandon]

See, you would have a point if I did in fact use the word "gay" to describe things I thought were stupid. But I haven't and I don't. Your point is moot and weak at best. It is the common trait of those who are wrong but do not want to admit it to blindly grasp at straws. I don't use the word "gay" to call things dumb and I tell people I hear doing it that that's not okay, just like with the N word and B word, and whatever other word is out there to disparage a group of people. Good try though-well, no, it wasn't a good try. It was abysmal.

I waa not refering to you I was refering to people in general. That's not a week argument you just choose not to listen because your to offended by what I said to actually think about, Like I said I'm sorry if I offended you but it's life, And I'm not gonna sit up here like a 2 year old. Your acting like a kid because your bringing it back up. Just drop. P.S my arguement wasn't weak and I guareentee if asked people how they felt they would agree.