THE BIG o

[JaneNicole2013]

My gf and I actually had sex over the weekend and the old way for me to achieve the big "o" is pffffffth. Nothing. It was still good for her so that's cool and she's bi so I don't have to worry about us splitting up because of my changes.

I have noticed that I am much more responsive to touch than before and when she kissed my nipple, wow--felt it all over my body. It was amazing .

Jane

[Pia Bianca]

Erection is necessary for climax. All females get erect right before climax. Erection is as much a feminine experience as a masculine one.

Hum, I tend to disagree. While I can grasp the thoughts which led you to assuming erections is not related to gender, I wouldn't call it erection for females. The source for the word erection is the Latin word erectum which means something has been risen, which means the penis has stiffened. While there are parts of womens genitalia which stiffen while the orgasm lasts (at least I assume, I unfortunately never was a women yet), there's nothing which may "stand up".

That said, I can agree on the fact that there is some equivalent thing in the female orgasm process. I'd call it arousal which accentuates the fact that males tend to appreciate physical things while females prefer mental things.

With regard to the big o... I hope for many years now to experience something I call body orgasm. When someone caresses my body (nipples, stomach, butt, ...) I feel very aroused. When it lasts long enough there's a point I start to feel like I'm about to explode. Unfortunately I did never actually explode... but I still like the pain of pleasure involved.

[Nicole]

Hum, I tend to disagree. While I can grasp the thoughts which led you to assuming erections is not related to gender, I wouldn't call it erection for females. The source for the word erection is the Latin word erectum which means something has been risen, which means the penis has stiffened. While there are parts of womens genitalia which stiffen while the orgasm lasts (at least I assume, I unfortunately never was a women yet), there's nothing which may "stand up".

That said, I can agree on the fact that there is some equivalent thing in the female orgasm process. I'd call it arousal which accentuates the fact that males tend to appreciate physical things while females prefer mental things.

With regard to the big o... I hope for many years now to experience something I call body orgasm. When someone caresses my body (nipples, stomach, butt, ...) I feel very aroused. When it lasts long enough there's a point I start to feel like I'm about to explode. Unfortunately I did never actually explode... but I still like the pain of pleasure involved.

My clit gets hard now, as my my penis did before.
What happens as it also does in CIA females is blood starts to flow to the area, growing in size.

You can see it happening. I can feel it happening in me

[Pia Bianca]

You can see it happening. I can feel it happening in me

I. Want. That. Too.

[Tori]

$20,000 cheap!

[Pia Bianca]

It's not the money holding me back. I would be able to pay, at least if I tried I would eventually succeed. It's just... I can't get myself to see a therapist and that's an absolute prerequiste for starting HRT and getting any surgery. At least it is in Germany...

[LordKAT]

It's not the money holding me back. I would be able to pay, at least if I tried I would eventually succeed. It's just... I can't get myself to see a therapist and that's an absolute prerequiste for starting HRT and getting any surgery. At least it is in Germany...

It sounds to me like the fear factor is holding you back. That first step can be quite a doozy. The future happiness will likely far outweigh your fears. Be brave. Make a phone call or two, even if it is just to find someone who would be willing to work with you, even if you don't use it right away. I think that the fear will resolve itself when you take charge by doing so.