I think a lot of us are probably just not dating. It feels even more complicated than it is, and it is pretty complicated, I think, for most humans.
I have been unwilling to date because with taking care of my kid I don't have a lot of extra social resources, but I've become more and more celibate as time goes on. Unwilling to even sleep with people, which I'm normally all about. I have annoying dreams about real-life experiences of being hit on by a cute guy, and then coming up with some vague excuse to turn them down because of some vague terror of genitalia-related rejection.