Bottom dysphoria.

[jussmoi4nao]

I really don't have bottom dysphoria, anymore. I used to, especially when people would talk about it, but it is what it is. I have a penis, XY chromosomes, etc. It's just, whatever. The people who would care about that won't ever see it, they just see a girl when they look at me.

Im probably non op, despite how good the surgery is suppised to be. The only time I feel like I want one is because I just think guys would like it better, and it would be easier, but so many don't care and what I have is good enough. Like I said I am who I am

[jussmoi4nao]

Also, I just want to add one more thing, I think the reason FtMs are so bottom dysphoric is because of society. Like women are so fetishized, a chick with a dick is something exotic so in a twisted way its more acceptable for a girl to have a penis.

But then with guys, there's such an obsession with masculinity and what is the symbol of masculinity? The schwanzstucker. Guys feel like they are lesser men if its small, let alone absent, so obviously FtMs will struggle more over genitals.

But. You shouldn't give into society. If you feel like a man, what's between your legs shouldn't make you feel like less of one. Everybodys different. What matter isn't being perfect...you really you don't have to BE ANYthing. All you have to do is embody what you feel inside. There's no such thing as being not enough or less than when you're not aspiring to be anything but YOU.

[Calder Smith]

Also, I just want to add one more thing, I think the reason FtMs are so bottom dysphoric is because of society. Like women are so fetishized, a chick with a dick is something exotic so in a twisted way its more acceptable for a girl to have a penis.

But then with guys, there's such an obsession with masculinity and what is the symbol of masculinity? The schwanzstucker. Guys feel like they are lesser men if its small, let alone absent, so obviously FtMs will struggle more over genitals.

But. You shouldn't give into society. If you feel like a man, what's between your legs shouldn't make you feel like less of one. Everybodys different. What matter isn't being perfect...you really you don't have to BE ANYthing. All you have to do is embody what you feel inside. There's no such thing as being not enough or less than when you're not aspiring to be anything but YOU.

Great post.

I've never looked at it that way before. I knew that there was a lot more '->-bleeped-<-' porn than I don't know what you'd call it.. FTM porn. All I know of is Buck Angel who is a transmale pornstar who has not had bottom surgery.

I still really want to have a phalloplasty just because I would like to have a penis but I know it is not necessary to have bottom surgery to be a man.

[CursedFireDean]

I realize this is a little late to comment, but I would definitely trade the fact I don't have periods for being a cisgendered female. A lot of women irl like to make period commentary at me, and it always frustrates me to no end; they don't realize what it means NOT to have a period. I realize this is totally different for FtMs, and all of you guys have my utmost sympathy for having to deal with something so painful that you have no stake in at all, but it isn't a turn of luck for MtFs that we don't have periods. The fact we don't have periods concurrently denies us of much more.

Reminds me of something an MtF reminded me once, if us FtMs are dysphoric about something, the MtFs are probably dysphoric in the opposite way.

[jussmoi4nao]

Great post.

I've never looked at it that way before. I knew that there was a lot more '->-bleeped-<-' porn than I don't know what you'd call it.. FTM porn. All I know of is Buck Angel who is a transmale pornstar who has not had bottom surgery.

I still really want to have a phalloplasty just because I would like to have a penis but I know it is not necessary to have bottom surgery to be a man.

Yeah there's a huge market for exotic women in porn, so MtFs do well. Sheeit, I've even considered being a camgirl when money has been tight. But when it comes to men, there's less of a place cause it's pretty much all about the D..there's still niches like bear, twink, etc, but it's aall about the D.

Not a cool world. I get why you want a penis tho. Just make sure its for the right reasons! And for what its worth you are already a very good looking guy

[Calder Smith]

Yeah there's a huge market for exotic women in porn, so MtFs do well. Sheeit, I've even considered being a camgirl when money has been tight. But when it comes to men, there's less of a place cause it's pretty much all about the D..there's still niches like bear, twink, etc, but it's aall about the D.

Not a cool world. I get why you want a penis tho. Just make sure its for the right reasons! And for what its worth you are already a very good looking guy

Like I said before in this thread, I don't watch porn much because it makes me dysphoric seeing a good looking guy with a perfectly functioning penis like how I want to look. I'm just an ugly guy who's stuck with breasts and a vagina that I have no use for. I don't care for them at all, and if I could I'd give them to a MTF who wants them lol.

I want a penis just because I've always wanted one. I think they're a lot better than vaginas plus like you said I want to please my future partner(s). I'm afraid a girl or guy wouldn't want to get in bed with me because I don't have what what most men have. I don't care if it's small or whatever as long as it looks similar to a cisguy's penis.

[Calder Smith]

Just a couple things...

1) I think you're extremely handsome.

and

2) You don't need a penis to please someone in bed. Not if they're really interested in you, vs. just your genitals. There are endless ways to do that. Be creative and have fun finding them. There's so much more to making love than just 'penis goes into vagina'.

Thanks, but I don't think so. I may look moderately good in my profile picture but in real life, I look awful.
Yeah, that's true but it'd be nice to have a penis to use during intercourse, if I don't have a sexual prosthetic at that time.

[Arch]

I hate my lower parts, and my dysphoria just gets worse and worse. On the other hand, I'm terrified to have anyone monkeying around down there and cutting me up. It's miles more scary than top surgery.

[Calder Smith]

I have never seen a single picture you've posted where you didn't look good, Calder. Well, except for the one you posted in girl clothes. Those just looked weird on you.

Well, thanks again. Yeah, I look weird in girl mode.